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we've been dating for about a year and always had a talk about marriage.
he said that he cant marry me because his parents want him to marry a girl from his background and i am not. and that even if his parents except me, he would feel bad for making them go thru that
yesterday we had a stupid fight and i said that i am leaving and want to break up.
i was crying a lot and than he ways saying that he cares about me, and i said that he doesnt care about me enough and he started crying. he said he loves me,cares for me but doesnt say anything about staying or leaving.........
we spend the night together , and decided to leave each other on a morning, in the morning he and i didnt say anything to each other, as if nothing happend.
he kissed me and went to work... and said , we will talk later
should i just leave him now???
or give it a change.
i love him alot, and i know he loves me, but i also know he will never go against his parents
i am lost

its not going against his parents for one, its how he feels and wants to deal with his life.

if he wants to wait and find someone else to fall in love with, or wants to marry for the wrong reasons so be it.

"Where lipstick is concerned, the important thing is not color, but to accept God's final word on where your lips end."
"If you ever see me getting beaten by the police, put down the video camera and come help me."

a man who wont help put you in his family or help his family understand who he fell for, or will not commit to a serious realtionship, is not worth it at this point.

its been a year, SITLL DATING??? okiee, you need to move on before your feelings for him get stronger, and his for yours. yes it will be tough and yes its going to be a really huge decision. but you already thought of leaving before, why not just do it? whats holding you back here? theres not going to be a future with this man.

I'm sorry to hear about your circumstance. I disagree with the above post, I haven't been here too long but I'll give some input.

In some ways it is going against his family and his values. Why would he play with your heart and go for you when he knew there couldn't be a future?

i don't know,
i guess he just fell for me, he never left me b4

I disagree with OOH MY for disagreeing with peanut butter. Everything he says is right on.

You are wasting your time with this guy who is 1) either letting himself be bullied by his family or 2) doesn't care enough about you to make it work.

Sooner or later you are going to take the hit. Do it now and get it over with.

I was disagreeing with the family part.

"You can do as I say, or say as I do, but don't say as I do and then don't not do it."