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I've known this girl for a few years and am kind of hung up on her. I'll "hang out" with her 2-3 times in a month, and she will seem very interested, lots of eye contact, sometimes I catch her just looking at me etc etc. Usually by the 3rd time, she'll want to come over. One time she was over and she put her hand on top of mine, but I moved it away because I had to get something (stupid I know).

Maybe it's because I don't make a move but after the 3rd time she'll start to seem less interested and start turning me down constantly, and this will go on for a few months.

Eventually I'll get annoyed or just give up, and then if I wait long enough, or seem annoyed she will contact me and try to hang out again. She will even call 1-2 times before just to make sure that it's still happening. Rinse and repeat. This cycle has gone 3 or 4 times.

What's going on?

Well I I've asked her to do something about 4 times in the last three weeks. Threw in the word date once even (said "dinner date"). I talk to her online 2-3 times a week too and she's pretty responsive. Only thing is that I don't call her to chat, is that possibly why?

have to agree.. If you show enough interest to her, and if you really try and organise stuff i'm sure she'll turn up.

Then do as the above told you and take it from there. Us girls aren't as scary as you guys think we are. A nice girl will let you know if shes not interested without being rude. If she does this DO NOT PUSH or you will lose any respect you have ok. But if she doesn't do anything then take baby steps. And you'll soon find out what she is comfortable with.

I'd call her, email her, IM her, meet her after class, send her candygrams, hire a skywriter .... It's time to be bold because you rejected her once!!! And make no mistake, "One time she was over and she put her hand on top of mine, but I moved it away because I had to get something" WAS a rejection!!

ou are dangerously close to being friendzoned here ... you have 2 goals: 1) see her in person; and 2) don't end the evening with your hand in your pocket instead of in her hand.


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Maybe try being really sweet and say that you miss hanging out with her and you want to give her some notice so that she can definately come with you. Be sweet about it. Make her feel special. Then she can't say no.

You say she does this, maybe she tried to get over you because she thinks nothing will happen but it just doesn't work. Or maybe she just isn't interested. BUT either way its worth a try isn't it.

Well I tried to be all sweet about it, but I was so nervous I had trouble even talking. Called her up and ended up just asking if she "wanted to get dinner some time." She said she had a midterm in 2 weeks so she wouldn't be free until afterwards. 2 weeks??? Sounds like an excuse to me, should I just throw in the towel? Plus she didn't seem to want to chat like she has in the past when I called her...