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I'm gonna come right out and admit it: I haven't had sex in 22 months, and it's starting to bug me. I have no interest in dating anymore, but I am curious about prostitutes.

I live in a city where prostitution is essentially legal, and where prostitutes carry cellphones and dress like other businesswomen and have the same standards of hygiene as "normal people".

My experiences in the dating world haven't been truly catastrophic, but they have been regrettably tedious. It's not so much that I'm shy - I have a very large circle of friends (all of whom are either straight men, gay men or lesbians). I'm just bad at dating.

Maybe our entire society's way of looking at sex is deeply messed up. Maybe sex SHOULD be a transaction. It can't possibly be any more crass and degrading than dating, and nobody can deny that it's much more honest than dating. And when you add up the cost of every first date I've been on over the last 21 months, it's certainly less expensive!

Why should sex and love have anything in common at all? Why shound something as profound as love be so necessarily inextricably bound up with something as mundane and embarrassing as getting off?

This question keeps eating away at me. Can anyone answer it? I wish to have this philosophical issue resolved before I make the big call.

If you like to get a disease go for it. Theres other ways of contacting a disease besides having sexual intercourse while being with someone.

You should wait until you meet someone and start dating. Then the sex will be more amazing.

Most women would think, woah you went that low? Its probably not something you want to say, but should tell someone.

It comes off as desperate in some sense, its icky!

Well I am from Australia and if you are questioning at all the morality of prostitution, in Australia I have no problems with it at all.

If I were to visit the United States I would never visit a prostitute, infact, I would be ashamed of myself if I did. My reasons are that in a country where there is no safety net, and a fulltime job does not always provide a living wage, it is easy for a girl to be forced into prostitution. I would not want that on my conscience.

I think it depends entirely where you are from.

Prostitution is fine, so long as the girls has not been coerced into it. For example coercion by economic factos outside of her control.

But yes I agree love and sex can very much be seperate.

If you are desperate for sex, what do the opinions of a group of strangers really have to do with it?

Sex can be separate from love, but there are a lot of people that will tell you sex with someone you sincerely care for is far more satisfactory and meaningful than sex with Lulu from 5th and Main.

You are the only one that can decide how intwined your love/sex ideology is, if you want to have sex when and with who is your choice

That is your choice to feel that way. Others have different opinions on the value they place on different things. Ones man's trash is another man's treasure

If you are not in a relationship and therefore not deceiving anyone, I would say you are a perfect candidate for this service. Since prostitution has been going on for a long time all over the world I don't see why it is illegal. Her body; her right. And clearly making it illegal has not put a stop to it.
I will however say that while the ladies o the night in your area may not come crack pipe obligatory, don't be blind. They didn't grow up thinking "I wanna be a prostitute!" Something went off the tracks for them at some point to lead them to this profession. They are damaged in some very sad way and no matter how nice you may be in your sessions with

If it's really accurate to say that the chances of getting a disease from a hooker is the same as from a coed in your city, then there's only one logical choice. Move to another city.

I don't like the idea of having sex with someone who will only have sex with me if I give them money.
Doesn't it bother you that noone wants to have sex with you for free?

Sure it does. A lot of things bother me: politics, the environment, the economy, single straight women being difficult to understand. But I don't dwell on things I can't change - I do the practical thing and get on with life.

What's the alternative? Turning into a "hopelessly romantic underlaid male" stereotype, who is a nervous wreck and develops creepy crushes on his co-workers? I'd rather be a punter