INTIMACY WITH YOUR GAL-single parent For me intimacy is defined as a perfect moment or at the most, a string of perfect moments. Personally, I'm not sure what being happy is like for any great swath of time. Intimacy is more about reveling in perfect moments like when your child says "you're the best daddy in the world or that last great big chord on Abbey Road.
Here's a great way to try simple intimacy. Forget the "I love yous" next time you're out with someone you love. Forget the "baby you so turn me on so much I just want you in bed with me". Instead, quietly turn to your gal and simply say this:I like you. I really like you. I just wanted to tell you that." Go ahead, try it. Just tell her that you like her. See what happens when you take the time to express but a simple moment of intimacy with your gal. |