I have a friend who is 24 I have a friend who is 24 and engaged to a man who is 40(he looks about 30). They are having their first child together in spring. My friend is extremely happy. Her parents (who are in their mid 40's) are not. But, she is happy and this guy has changed her whole outlook on life.
Up until a few months ago, she never wanted to get married or have kids. Now she is actually looking forward to starting a life with him and settling down. But, the main thing is that SHE is happy. He is ecstatic to finally be a father for the first time. They are cute together. So, if you are happy, then I say go for it! |