Pursuing people who are always in a relationship is easier than pursuing loners Loners usually are independent and their need for a lover is usually less. Also, most loners may be socially inept and unable to relate to people. Another reason is that loners may already be in love with themselves or their career causing them to be emotional unavailable for another love. Finally, there may be reasons why people do not want to be friends with a loner. Befriending them may provide no benefits or your love cost may be too high. |