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Old 11-05-2007, 06:15 AM
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Default Great Article Are you about to be dumped? 12 fire signs that the end it near!

I had this feeling that my boyfriend was going to dump me he started refering to me as a friend and his mates seemed really distant! So I googled it and found this article Which has def confirmed in my mind I'm getting the flick

1. She/he is suddenly busy all the time, and never seems to have time to spend with you. When you find yourself becoming less and less of a time priority, even if the reasons for the distance seem logical, it is never a good thing.
2. You find that only your fingers do any walking. If you are the only one who ever picks up the phone, especially if the phone calling used to be split pretty equally, break up bells should start ringing.
3. When you call, more often than not you are asked to leave a message. Be it a parent, sib or friend, if somebody else always seems to answer the phone and take a message you are probably being screened, and we don't screen people we want to talk to!
4. S/he says s/he is one place but is really another. People do not tend to lie for no reason, if s/he is not being honest about where s/he is or who s/he is with there is rarely a noble reason for the deception.
5. You don't seem to connect anymore. Remember how when you were first getting together you would run into each other in unexpected places, like between classes or at the mall? If these "accidental" meetings become less common place it may be no accident at all.
6. Her/his friends seem distant. When somebody wants out of a relationship they often let their friends in on the secret well ahead of time. If your steady's friends seem less friendly it is a good indicator that they know something you don't and that it probably isn't good.
7. The lovin' is gone! When affection and PDAs (public displays of affection) start to dwindle it could mean the fire of love is also going out.
8. S/he starts introducing you to new people as "a friend". If s/he is calling you a friend that is all s/he sees you as -- bottom line.
9. You seem to be fighting a lot about little things. Lots of little fights often mean much bigger things are really at issue.
10. Kissing and telling. Respect is a relationship essential, once it has been compromised the relationship often follows suit.
11. You just can't seem to do ANYTHING right. Be it the style of your hair or the way you walk, if your steady suddenly finds fault with everything you do s/he is probably trying to push you away.
12. You aviod any conversation that begins with "we have to talk" or "I don't know how to say this." If your steady is using these opening lines a break up speech usually follows. If you are avoiding conversations that start like this it is probably because you sense that a break up is near and think that if you avoid the talk it won't happen. You are wrong. If a person wants out of a relationship they will get out whether you let them tell you or not. Avoiding this talk is just prolonging the inevitable.

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Old 11-05-2007, 06:16 AM
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Recently I have noticed that I am the one who always calls! because if I don't he wont get in contact with me and if he does its always really late (which means we cant meet up anyway!). It never used to be like this I have confronted him about and he just says he has a lot of work commitments at the momment but in a couple of weeks things will be back on track Do you think I should believe him or do you think its a sign

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Old 11-05-2007, 06:16 AM
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* never calling or returning my phone calls
* lying to me about where he's been (his friends were always the ones to tell me thinking that i knew)
* when ever i did manage to get through with him i'd suggest meeting up to which his response would be what ever you want in a dull and bored tone! (which would then result in an argument)
* when ever we did see each other he was distant and played his playstation
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