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guys,

the ex asked me to go to the movies tonight its been 2 months since we broke up after a 3 yr relationship.

does this usually mean a good sign towards reconciliation or am i kidding myself? how should i handle myself? go for the hold hands or stay put and have her make the moves. keep in mind shes the one that broke up with me...

we've been having casual lunches lately so i guess this is progress? any insight to this would be great. im leaving in an hour so any quick response will be appreciated!

You're totally going to get back together. Same thing happened with me and my ex, and we were together for another 2 yrs.

MY BEST ADVICE TO YOU listen carfully don't forget WHY you broke up in the first place.

With me, two years later, we broke up again for the same reason.

its hard to tell unless she flat out says i wanna try again my ex who broke up with me we went to lunches hung out, talked on the phone. and i always thought it was progress towards getting back but 4 months later it was all just false hope and she has no intention of getting back so i went into NC tired of all the bs from her so i would say have no expect ion and if your okay with just being friends then do it i guess feel her out and how she acts towards you i know i cant be friends with my ex now do you really wanna hear about potential guys she might be dating in the future i know i didn't hope that helps

she broke up with me boy friend of my career and poor partying habits well my business has stabilized ie no more late nights and i completely stopped the bad partying habits. ie the changes she wanted me to make, i made and she knows this any other inputs. i appreciate the quick responses.

Same thing happened to me tonite. Ex apologized for everything wrong hes ever done. Explained alot about how hes feeling, cried, Then today asked me if I would like to go to dinner on friday night, as friends. He said he doesnt want to lose me in his life forever and that the thoughts of me with someone else make him sick, and he cant see himself with anybody else.
Only knows what he feels in his heart.
I didn't say yes or no. I'm scared. This has been our second break up, 3 years, been broken up for about 2 months, 1 month officially
Don't know .

theres the key right there YOU CHANGED, your action showed her, you didn't just tell her. Take it slow, have fun, don't have huge expectations. This could work!
Good Luck

remember, she did say to me she wants to be with me and i made sure what she said was not sugarcoating the incident she jsut wanted me to be the old me before the heavy partying and more time for her, etc. and i have stopped the heavy partying completely.

was it the right thing not to hold her? anyone with input would really b appreciated.

holding her would probably been too much, now you have to be just cool and make sure you show to her that you're not the heavy drinking party animal anymore

I think so, it would've been too soon. I mean she hasn't said she wants to try again or anything yet.