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Old 11-03-2007, 04:17 PM
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i am not so sure about the game playing with making him think you meet lots of men etc just be yourself if that's what you do then fine, if not then also fine! he obviously used to like you, still does and also appreciates your friendship because he wanted to maintain contact with you there could have been lots of other reasons why he was not ready to commit to a serious relationship in the past, plus it is not clear how hard you pushed!

be open to dating and the possibility of building a new relationship with him but do not go all out from the beginning! just see how things develop and whether there is still something there let his actions speak for themselves but do not race ahead with possibilities till they happen. just keep you feet on the ground and let him prove he deserves you!

by the sounds of things he is interested in you. you are both hanging out together etc so i think things look positive nobody can give guarantees about how people feel and how honest they are but sometimes it is good to take things at face values.

good luck and hope everything works out in the best way for you!
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Old 11-03-2007, 04:19 PM
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The problem that a lot of men have simply has to do with commitment. When they can't commit they're unable to be direct with their feelings. Therefore, if he doesn't come right out and say "I want to pursue a serious relationship with you", then you have your answer. Commitmentphobic men have a tendency to beat around the bush and send mixed signals. If he starts doing this, move away immediately and wait for the next guy to come into your life who will give you a commitment.

This was the primary reason my ex broke up with me and I understand it's awful because, like you, I'm sure, we had an amazing connection. But, relationships take work on top of the love and connection and if he's not going to put in his fair share and be open and honest with you, then I don't see how anything will change you'll only set yourself up for a second round of heartbreak.
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