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why do people lie about liking big women?

well i always hear guys say yea they like curves. so where are they really. i can never find one. i dated a few, who said yup i like it. then a few months down the line, they got on my case, trying to get me to lose weight. so do you think big girls are nicer, cause we have to be to get a man? and then we willlose weight when your in? what exactly are you thinking? this goes for ladies who do the same thing too. why do you all do this?

es I am one of those evil ones too ,

got my wife (RIP) to work out surf with me eat better and healthier , ride bikes , swim , did all of this when we first got married , got down from a size 10 or something to a 3 .

She became an athelete a good one was chosen to train and see if she was to be accepted at a olympic training center here. She was very flexible, hehehehe.

Yes I thought she was so smoking hot , much more than when we first married , she was more active than I , no more a couch potato eating chips and cheese cake .

I do not know if it was bad on my part to really press for this but I think her self worth went up 1000 percent .

Maybe I am an ass or something , but babe , if you feel good about yourself why should you care ?

You probably had way more dates than I , being bigger lady is better than being a shorter guy , I cannot fix that ,

If the guy does not like they way your body size is , then he is not worth it , I may be one of them I like them athletic eventually .

Babe you are so cute and you live nearby

I dont think I lie lie about big women, I like fuller woman to begin with, not extreme over weight tho. I make them feel good sometimes, my wife used to think she is the most beautiful women in the world , I used to make her beleive she is. I am sure women do that to men sometimes.

I like curves leg curves, thigh curves, waist curves (like hourglass-like curves), butt curves when a guy says he likes a woman to be curvy that's usually what he's talking about. And no, guys don't and shouldn't expect a girl to lose weight when she's "in" she should have stopped going to mcdonalds and done away with the excess long before then.

Im offended by that last part "she should have stopped going to mcdonalds and done away with the excess long before then."
First of all not all women of size eat at McDonalds (really stupid thing to say), second some women do try to lose weight but it can be hard when "some" people whisper nasty comments when they try to get fit.
Speaking as a curvy women, if the body is all you look at then when you get screwed over and meet women who you regret then you have only your self to blame. I think a heart and soul should count for more than looks. But if you bring it up in the right way and talk to them about getting fit if the women is up for it then that a different story. but no one has the right to tell someone to lose weight, man or women.

iamsweetnotstupid: you took the words right out of my mouth! Why is it when a woman asks a completely legitimate question they get idiots on here who have to pump up their ego or whatever by bashing heavier women by saying we eat too much? If you don't have anything nice to say.you know the rest!

Speaking as a big woman,
I don't really believe in men prefering big women.People don't fall in love with each other based on appearance.I know my husband didn't set out to find himself a big woman to spend the rest of his life with.He fell in love with ME the person. Men can fantsasize all they want about thier ideal woman.I know I'm not the ideal woman in body but I also know that I'm 1 hell of a woman inside.

I have been involved with women of all shapes and sizes. I don't have a preference and I have never chosen one size over the other. It's the person who makes themself appear attractive on both sides of the skin that appeal to me.

For women who complain about being ignored because they are BBW - it's a hang up.
For guys who ignore BBW - it's a hang up.

Regardless of size, you should always live a healthy lifestyle.

've been with both and although both are very nice I find that smaller woman have more confidence in themselves. I also find that most of the woman I know that are overweight like to put themselves down far too much. I do prefer to see a skinny person because I don't find rolls of fat very attractive on anyone of either sex. We all have our own preferances as to what we like in a person and we can never ever please everyone so my suggestion is to be who you are and the hell with what other people think. If anyone is lying about liking big woman then there probably lying to save hurting their feelings.

Blunt truth is a lot of ppl will try to change something about someone else. Blessed are those who just take ppl for who they are. If you're going to start dating someone who is large, thin, short hair, long hair, smoker, non smoker, etc. why expect them to try to change it later. If you know something up front and accept it, then, that's the way it's probably going to stay, so to expect any different is setting up the relationship for failure from the get go.

while I'm posting, has anyone noticed that these "sexy" pics (both female and male) a lot of times will not have an actual "face" shot in their profile.