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So today is D day
I have had 15 days of jercy.

But, a girl from his very distant past (15yr ago) is arriving today from another country. She is staying with him 10 to 14 days.

She is interested in him. He's not sure what he wants from her in all honesty and dating her isn't an option they live to far away and he prob wouldn't see her again in many many years.

Still - it's killing me to know he's with her. He might just sleep with her because he can we're not together but it still really hurts.

It hurts that it's been two weeks and not a single word from hi
These next several days are going to be nail bitters!

It must suck . Its going to be like that for me next week. Ill be on day 11 next friday, shes going out with "this guy" and there just friends shes doesnt want anything serious so she tells me, but the thought often pops up in your head doesnt it! Sometimes though if we fell out and she was going out, Id have those insecurities as well. Shes going out tonight as well, its a horrible feeling. But trust him not to do anything, im sure he will tell you if he has, and yes it will hurt like hell but at least hes not hid it from you.

My ex is managing a gas station - certainly not his dream job but it's a job. Its 60+ hours a week and very very very little pay. I told him I believe in him and that this is just a stepping stone to something great but he's had so many job related disappointments in the last 3 years. A job he loved and was great at had the department cut and he's just been floundering since.

So I've called all my friends to place a hex on him!

I said let's hope the ice machine breaks down Let's have the midnight guy call in sick at the last minute .

Let's let him be stressed and EXHAUSTED. Let him resent the fact that he told her she could come for a visit!

Come on honey - you must stay strong - be bigger than this - be better than this.

You have done so well so far - don't give in because I can tell you that if you do, you will feel even worse than this afterwards.

There is some cruel mechanism in our brains that seems to focus on all the things that will hurt us after a breakup and this one is no exception - this one is the worst one what they might get up to with someone else. But think about it rationally you started to there nothing is likely to happen between them.

Do what you are doing - keep real busy post on here talk to friends and family wear yourself out.

You can do this, I know you can.

Thanks I have met someone who has piqued my interest I am trying to move on.

The weirdest part is I keep meeting all these succesful guys who could offer me so much financial stability something my ex certainly couldn't. But, I'm not materialistic. Yes it's great to have it but I'd be happy if my ex and I only had a dollar between us.

I am staying strong. I know its wrong of me to think thoughts that he should suffer some ill this week but I'll be honest it does make me get over it knowing that he's soooo unhappy in his life.

you wish bad things on your ex - that's not love. Love is wanting only the best for the person that we love, whether they are with us or not. Hoping lots of bad things happen at your ex's work, being glad that his life is unhappy - that's not love. It's needing someone, but not loving them.

Let your ex go with love and hope that he's happy whatever he chooses to do and whoever he chooses to be with.

Oh I do love him I'm just frustrated with him

I don't really wish him poorly I would have gone to the ends of the earth to make his life for him and his kids better and not get a thing from it.

I just needed to vent

It just makes me sad that he just walked away from us even admitted that he didn't give us a chance

So I'm not evil just human!

Thats it at the end of the day, were all human. But the sad thing is with ex's they can seem to surpass that. I never thought my ex could be so cruel..Like almost satanic. But its us thinking irrationally I think. They are human as well and if someone was bothering me like I was her about the relationship I think I would do the same thing. But as we know, cruelty can bring you back together once they have thought it through.

I think it's only natural to wish that our ex's aren't happy without us. But then that moment comes when you genuinely wish them happy, and it is a moment of joy and liberation. I get glimpses of it, but I'm not quite there yet.

True, think of all the great times you had with this guy. Can it be possible in 14 days? I think not. My Ex by no means had the best time of her life with me. Now I think its horrible if I saw her with another guy. But hes got his work cut out so much for him to even get close to what I got with her, and that makes me feel good about the whole thing. Im sure if you think about it you will too .