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I can't believe I am posting this . This is embarrasing.But here goes...


I love being talked to dirty during the act..and before. And I mean I like hardcore words, haha. I have been with my BF for just over 3 months, we had sex after about 3 weeks. He is the first guy I have "properly" had sex with. I am19, he is 27. But we are both inexperienced when it comes to the full act.

Anyways, now and then he will say something dirty. And I love it. Like addressing the age difference and a few other things. But I can tell he is really embarrassed by it. He kinda laughs a bit afterwards, and then he will stop JUST WHEN IT GETS GOOD. I try and encourage him, and never laugh back so he doesn't think it's bad or whatever. But he still seems shy about this. I dunno wether he's unsure if I like it or what? I then say something dirty too, but I also get shy about it 'cause I dunno if he actually likes it. I'm guessing he does, because he is a bloody man. But we both seem to be too shy.

I find it a real turn-on and it's dissapointing when he just stops. the sex in general isn't dissapointing but that part is. Any advice on how to knwo if he likes it, and how to get him to do it more? I know comign right out and asking/saying is the best bet, but eventhough I;ve been with him 3 months I'm shy too.

Tell him what you said here. You like it, and in fact you like it so much that you don't like it when he stops. Tell him if he's going to say it, he's got to follow through.

And good idea not to laugh. It would definitely give the wrong message. You can also respond by getting more into whatever you and he are doing when he talks that way, even if you have to exaggerate the moans and the movements a bit, to be sure he knows his words are having an effect on you.

I know where you are coming from. After 2 years of being with my ex, I still couldn't do it with out being somewhat shy.

You have to be confident in it though, don't show that you are shy at all. That will only make him shy. You know like when someone is acting awkward during a big speech. You can't help but feel awkward watching it!! Try to think of the subjects that turn you on and think of a way to bring it out before having sex, maybe?