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I recently met a girl through an online dating site that matches your responses with people in their database. We have had great phone conversations, as well as great conversations in person. We have gone out two times. On our second date, we started kissing and one thing led to another, and I'm sure you can figure out what happened. It was good and fun and all, but I feel awful about it. I don't know that I have feelings for her as of yet. Our intimite situation was just pure passion and not really love making, at least in my eyes.

My issue is that I like this girl, but I don't know that I will ever love her. I feel awful for what we did the other day, and I feel that I took advantage of her in some way. I did not go to her place thinking we would have sex, or even make out. I just got out of a self destructive relationship about 3 months ago, and I vowed to myself to never move so fast again.

My gut tells me I need to confront her about this next time I talk to her, but I don't want to hurt her feelings or self-esteem. She's a great person, but I think she wants more than I am ready to give. What should I do?

Honestly I think you should talk to her, I mean you don't have to break up with her or anything but just talk to her about taking things slowly.

There's nothing wrong with expressing your feelings, I know your intentions are not to hurt her but you feel awful because things were not suppose to happen that way especially when it was just a second date.

Don't make it look like she came off too easy, I know that would hurt, but tell her because you got out of a reltaionship and you dont want to move on in to fast.

I'm sure she will understand just don't offend her at all that would hurt

Thank you, The last thing I want to do is make her feel easy or hurt. She is a good person. You know, good people do stupid things sometimes as well. I like to think I am a good guy, but maybe I am not. I feel as though I am leading her on. That said, she is the one that wanted to go to her room. I'm going to talk to her, and hopefully she will realize the correct and right thing to do.

I talked to her today. We discussed the situation, and came to an agreement that we were moving way to fast. I told her it wasn't that I didn't want to see her again, but that I was going down a path that I didn't want to, nor was ready to explore yet. She was really cool about it, and we are still going out this weekend. Thanks for your help.

Hi,

I must agree that good people do stupid things. Perhaps it was a moment thing but yes Good Luck I'm sure she will understand your point of view and that's good that you are thinking about her feelings. Some guys are just don't really take other peoples feeling into consideration especially the opposite sex you know what I mean Hope things work out for the best and I'm positive it will.

The last thing I want to do is make her feel easy or hurt. She is a good person. You know, good people do stupid things sometimes as well. I like to think I am a good guy, but maybe I am not. I feel as though I am leading her on. That said, she is the one that wanted to go to her room. I'm going to talk to her, and hopefully she will realize the correct and right thing to do.

You sound like a good person who is trying to do the right thing by her. I hope it all works out for you. I do commend you for the courage to sit down and talk to her to try and get things settled so you don't accidently hurt her.

Best of luck in your talk.

I'm glad things worked out for both of you. It really shows a lot that she was understanding to what you felt. It brings the communication to a good level you know what I mean But overall I'm glad to hear that ya'll were able to work things out. Good Luck :

You sound like a very sensitive person. I feel sure that you did not have a lot of choice in the situation so no point in feeling guilty.

I suggest you enjoy the moment but do not promise more than you intend to deliver. That way you are not open to the "You led me on" allegation.

Just wonder what it is that is stopping you?

I have a very strong feeling that you should go for it 100%. Totally enjoy the moment and stop thinking about the future.

There is no such thing as a past or future all we ever have is a present.

I would always accept a little bit of what I wanted rather thank some mythical.

I applaud you for caring to do the right thing, not the thing that feels good!
I did not go to her place thinking we would have sex, or even make out.

I can understand how easy it is to do. And once done, many find it even easier to do again.

I "flee" situations that could put me into temptation. Like ensuring we go 'out' and have a constructive activity planned. I avoid 'talking' in private, where things could happen.