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Old 10-31-2007, 11:55 AM
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I've been in a relationship for 3 weeks now, but prior to officially dating we spent a month together talking and doing other things that could be considered dates. We ended up having sex for the first time last night. Are we going too fast?

Also since I'm still in college, dating isn't quite the same thing.We spend a lot of quality time together. For example, the past few days we've hardly been out of each other's sights for longer than two hours. So once again. are we going too fast?
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Old 10-31-2007, 11:56 AM
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If you think you're going too fast yes.
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That depends on you feel and how your partner feels. I personally wouldn't say that's too fast. You are right about college and being able to spend a lot of time together, so that would probably make the relationship progress a little faster than if you only saw each other once a week.

Here are some questions that might help you determine if you are moving too fast:

Do you feel comfortable enough with him to discuss and whether or not either of you have any?

Do you feel comfortable enough with him to discuss birth control?

Does he seem interested in you as a person? In other words, if you took sex out of the picture, would he still be interested? Then reverse that, would you still be interested?

Do you spend quality time together that does not include sex?
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Old 10-31-2007, 11:57 AM
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Three weeks is not enought ime to get to know him? What if he is ap layer of has a disease. Have him do check!
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I'm a senior in college, and speaking for myself, yes that is too fast. At least for me. Not just physically, but I need my personal 'self' time, and my 'friend' time, things that were priority before a guy came along. I'm lucky my bf understands this, we see each other a 2-3 times a week, and we each do our friend thing. Having someone shouldn't take away from what you already have with your friends, family, etc it should be an added benefit to enhance your life!
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No one can give you an objective answer on this one. Its really how you and he view it that would determine if either of you felt things were progressing too quickly.
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Old 10-31-2007, 11:58 AM
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There is no right answer to this. The fact that you ask the question suggests that you feel it was!
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