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A girl new to me just came round for dinner at a family, and I really liked her. We talked all evening till we watched a movie, and sat next to each other. We slowly edged closer, until we ended up holding hands. We then went for a walk into the night, and began making out. But since this was my first time, it was really awkward, and I did really crap I just couldn't do it properly. This went for a while until she slowly pulled away, and a few times after doing this, she pulled away fully. I have the feeling I put her off me, but she said we were going to quick and she wanted to take it slowly. I then proceeded more slowly until I realized she meant the relationship slowly only adding insult to injury. We went back inside and pretended like nothing had happened, and the evening went just like normal from there. What the hell have I just done? Have I ruined my chances? I feel like I've put her totally off me. We arranged a movie and stuff, and she said she wants to get to know me better, but I feel I've done something wrong. Please help.

Hi,

I think I got all confused by what you are asking. First how old are the two of you? Second "after a few times after doing this " doing what, exactly? Having sex? Trying to have sex? Maybe this was her first time as well. Now, since she said she would like to get to know you better, I would take that as a good sign that you haven't made any mistake (don't make that mistake again, if this is how you feel) Just let things unfold naturally. Just because you like a girl doesn't mean you must have sex with her right? Maybe after you get to know her better and she gets to know you better you can discuss the sex thing. Since you "walked into the night" and did stuff did you have protection?! It could be that she was thinking clearly enough to know better than to do it in an unsafe way.

No, it was making out or kissing not sex. Just I'm crap at it. We were at a family so we had to go somewhere private, so we went for a walk. Make sense now?

Sorry, mind in the gutter here! Just take things slowly. Let her get to know you like she asked. I bet things will be cool.

Hard to say whether you've been crapped out or not. Be cool about it. You'll know pretty soon whether it tanked or not.

We arranged a movie and stuff, and she said she wants to get to know me better, but I feel I've done something wrong. Please help.

Sounds like she still wants to go out with you, so no irreparable damage done.

Next time, I would really pay closer attention to how she responds to you and gauge your physical advances by that. You don't want her to think you are only after her bod.

And like the other poster said don't get too involved in your own excitement, try to sense what she's feeling and watch her signals and body language. Pulling away is not necessarily bad, she might just needed some air.