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Ok, here is the deal, I am 19 f, and he is 24.

I need some time to think about what is happening. We have been together for just a little over a month. The thing is, I told him I can't see him this weekend, because I need time to myself. He keeps bringing it up, tonight he asked me if I was sure I didn't even have time to go out for dinner...what the crap? I mean, I told him no, it means no.

I don't know, he has told me that he doesn't want to be with anyone else, but I, he says he wants to marry me, eventually (we have known each other since September, but we got together on January), if everything works out. Is this going too fast? I feel like it is. A friend of mine is coming to live with my family and I because he was kicked out of his house, he admitted that he was jealous.

I understand that, but still, I need time to myself, and he keeps asking to see me. I am thinking that I will take these next 4 days to think things over, if he asks me once more, if I am sure that I can't see him, I am going to tell him we need time off from each other. This is really irritating me, really bad, I feel like he is trying to manipulate me, and I am not one to get manipulated, it's harder when he is actually here, because I get lost in my feelings for him, but when he is far away from me, I can think clearer.

Anyway, I have all of these other things going on right now, and he isn't helping them. I don't want to break up with him, but I don't think I can take the fact that he can't believe what I am saying, because that is obviously what is happening, he can't believe that I can't see him, so he keeps asking. Any comments...would be greatly appreciated. I am not too good with this touchy-feely stuff, but I am willing to try. Thanks.

Too many problems way too soon. Let him go. If he's irritating you this much after only dating for a month, it can only go downhill from here. Had you been dating a long while and this became a problem, I'd suggest communication and trying to work it out, but it never ends well when there are problems like this from the get go.

I agree with you its too fast. I can understand needing time for yourself. I'm in that situation myself. My girl friend wants me to go to her place on Friday nights instead of Saturday afternoon. We usually spend the weekends at her place. This leaves no time for myself for down time and taking care of the apartment, and other domestic chores.

I agree, the guy sounds like he is irritating.

Sounds like he's very taken with you how all that pressure makes you feel? He might learn something from it, instead of wondering later what he did to turn you off.

Just a thought.

I know this is late, but I can empathize with your situation. If he's pressuring you this much now, just think how bad it could get down the road. He doesn't respect when you say no because he wants his way. That's an awful thing and an omen of things to come.