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Set up a third date with a woman. We both "sounded" excited about this date that we would set up the following week. 3 days later, I called just to chat, had a couple laughs, left it at that. Called again to set up the date 4 days later. Left a message.Said that I called the other day because "I wanted to hear your voice and try to put some sunshine in your day" if were still on call me back" never heard from her again even though I called a couple of more times. Was this really that bad of a thing to say? Did I deserve to be blown off for this? I mean its not like I pledged undying love for her or anything.

Said that I called the other day because "I wanted to hear your voice and try to put some sunshine in your day"

If she were really into you, she would have thought that was sweet. If she felt a bit uncomfortable with you saying that, then she wasn't really into you to begin with.

I'd write her off.

I don't think it was a bad thing to say it was really sweet. It sounds like either she is too busy or just rude. I'm sorry.

Dont be sorry. I appreciate the the honesty. Been out of the dating game for alot of years so I'm bound to screw some things up. I just felt I deserved at least a "no thanks I'm not interested". I did confront her on this and she got very defensive and giving me excuses but I never did get any truth out of her. I guess I'm better off. I'm not going to bother with this one anymore.

Thanks thats what I'm doing. Its just strange because she came onto me. I guess I'm upset because I felt led on. I didn't give her anything so maybe she was expecting things that I wasn't prepared to give yet. Who knows? What ever happened to honest and open communication anyways? I'm sure its there somewhere but obviously not where I was.

Good choice. With all the others in the world there are bound to be others that will treat you how you deserve to be.

Thank you for the sound advice to everyone.
and obsessive. I regret ever doing these things. I will try to simply say sorry this weekend and let everything get back to normal.

does happen to people thats why a called a couple of more times. Got no answer back so I left it at that.

Ended up talking to her a couple of months later, asked her what happened and why and she got defensive, something to hide, I'm not gonna smear the details all over here.

You call it stalkerish or obsessive, its about asking because I felt I had the right to know. I don't chase her down, I don't go to her work, I don't follow her around doing those things, thats stalking. And if liking someone and taking a romantic interest in them is obsessive, then every one on the planet is.

You might want to throw in a nice gift.

Seeking her out months later after two lowly dates to demand answers is getting close to obsessive. Personally, I'd run the other way too. Who knows what a guy like you will do when he's crossed.