What do you think is up with this girl This is a girl I dated a couple of times last year, I kissed her. Then we had a falling out, I got annoyed with something she said and hung up on her and didn't talk for ten months.
She contacted me out of the blue last month and we have been talking again. I invited her out to a party last month, and we went back to my apartment and hung out. I haven't kissed her since we started talking again, but I have asked her to come over to my house on a Thursday night and 'watch a movie', and she told me she would if the weather wasn't so bad , so I think she knows what I want and isn't against it.
She is a hard person to figure out, or get hold of. She is never online and doesn't have a cell phone. For the past couple of weeks, I have been trying to get her to go out with me. This is what usually happens - I call her during the week to set up a date. I get her machine, but don't leave a message. She doesn't call me back. A few days go by, I get depressed and about to give up on her when - she calls me back and acts like nothing happened. By then the weekend is over and the activity I had wanted to invite her to is over, and I'm busy with work so I don't ask her out again. Repeat the next week. The past couple of weeks she will call me up out of the blue on a weekday night and invite me out to a wine tasting with her. I am really busy during the week so I couldn't go.
I'd like to go out with this girl again and hopefully start getting physical with her again, I wish I knew what she were thinking. Fri - she was like this last year too, I think this is just how she is. What do you think is going on? I like this girl, but this situation is driving me nuts. Every time I think, ok this sucks, I can't date someone like this, she calls me up and invites me out and I start crushing on her again.
What do you think is going on with her? |