what should i do hi friends,
he's not controlling. he's never said he would commit suicide, but one night we had been in a argument and i left his house and hadn't seen him for a day or two so at night iw as thinking about him. I felt bad and missed him so i went over to his house. He was sleeping but when i started talking to him he was so glad i was there because i told him that i don't think we are going to work. and he thought i was breaking up with him, and he was really sad (i didn't know that he was sad or going to kill himself though he doesn't control me and he never told me that he would or threatened it) So i told him i was sorry and we were really emotional and he was so relieved i wasn't leaving. but then he started crying (he never cries) and i asked him what was wrong and he said i almost made a really big mistake tonight. I asked him baby what you can tell me its ok.. and he told me he bought a bottle of sleeping pills and he was going to take them all so he would never wake up. So i looked in the medicine cabinet and took the pills and threw them out. He was emotionally unstable. He really doesn't want to live without me. I know that he has some emotional issues. theres nothing wrong with that. no one is perfect. i probably have emotional issues sometimes. weve been together 4 years. i'm not leaving him. i guess what do you think i could do so that he isn't so sad. I really think that he hates himself, and isn't proud of anything he's done and has no hope for himself. except for me. i'm the only positive thing in his life (so he feels) what could i do to uplift him? |