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My boyfriend tells me when we get to intimate conversations, or we fight and make up that he would have nothing to live for without me.

In the beginning of our relationship i thought it was so sweet and i felt the same way. But i don't know is that unhealthy?

Are you supposed to feel like that, or is it just a way to express how much you love the person. because i don't want to feel like if i left him he would kill himself.i'm not planning on leaving.

So if a man says that he has no other reason to live but to be with you is that unhealthy?

I think he is just expressing to you how much he really cares about you.

Im sure he had something to live for before you came along.
But if he was being serious about having nothing to live for after u had gone, and attempted suicide, then yes thats very unhealthy.

There is nothing you can do, dont stay with him if you are unhappy, and dont let him use the excuse that he will kill himself if u leave him. Cause thats just pathetic

Did he say "if you leave I'll kill myself" if he did I'd say that's unhealthy.

I mean I tell my husband I'd die without him and stuff like that, but it's just my way of saying how much I love him.

well all say 'i cant live without you, i would die' to our SOs, it doesnt mean that we will literally die neither will we commit suicide... its just a way to express how u feel. And trust me he will not kill himself even if u breakup with him.. no matter how much he loves u.

Yes, it is very unhealthy. It is a mechanism of control. He is guilt-tripping you.

If without you, he has nothing to live for, maybe he just needs to adios now and avoid the rush because it is not your job or anyone else's to give meaning to his life.

Your man have some real and deep emotional issues, and is cleverly trying to recruit you into his unrealistic world. Indeed, if things start to go south, you will be too emotionally commited and guilt ridden to take the high road. Out of guilt alone, you will be trapped with this psychotic fool-- to the point of extreme unhappiness.

If you two were together for fifty years, ever since you were both teens, then it would make a little sense, but little do you realize is that you are dealing with a conniving, controlling, weak-minded, insecured lunatic who has no clue what love is, and there you are, calling his madness love.

Mess around and this man is going to love you to death. Take my word. Bet me you won't be back on here crying the blues about some crazy sh*t he did or didn't do, how much work this relationship requires, how your own death would be more welcomed than another day with this man.

Forrest Gump says it best: "Crazy is as crazy does." I echo.

I think it could be unhealthy, depending on how serious he is when he says it. If a man says he has no other reason to live without you, I consider that not healthy at all. Relationships are supposed to be wonderful additions to people's lives, not their WHOLE life, unless, of course you have been together for a long long time

Seriously, Summer, the next time he says something like that to you, ask him if he would rather you hand him a dose of cyanide or a loaded gun so he can do it right and see what he says.

If he, with a straight face, chooses one, then he just might be serious. If not, he is faking the funk, but either way, let it be his call.