Work hard to increase net benefit of lover while he/she is with you Instead of trying to increase your lover's break-up cost directly by limiting their social network or decreasing their attractiveness, do it right. Try lowering your love cost by learning ways to fulfill your own needs and increasing your attractiveness. Also, try to increase the total love benefit of your lover. By optimizing the soulmate ratio of your lover, the chances of them finding another lover better than you diminish. This results in increasing commitment. |