Play hard to get. See how committed your love interest is to you People who play hard to get usually have been hurt in the past. They usually have been dumped or cheated upon by past lovers. They are not smart enough to see that breaking up is a positive thing. Usually, these people will use tactics to trap you in a relationship because they fear being alone or do not have enough self-esteem to handle a break up. They will try to limit your social network and your attractiveness to increase your break-up cost and decrease their risk of being dumped by you. If you value yourself, you will never grovel to these types of people. You have better things to do than waste your precious time with these problem people. Your soulmate will never play hard to get. |