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Okay me and my ex broke up 3months ago she broke up with me we have talked thru out the time i begged,pleaded, but lately just been talking she started seeing this guy and she like him and it might be heading for them to be in a rel she is calling me today and this is the last time i am gonna be talking to her i would considering trying with her in the future i do love her maybe i wont feel like this in a few months but for now i do anyway i wanted to tell her if things don't work out in the future for you i would like if we got in touch and tried do you think this is to much or how should i leave it what should i say.

don't say this, it's putting yourself on the back burner. I would say something to the effect of I understand that you are moving forward with your life and I need to the same, therefore I think its best for both of us not have contact you can deal with reconciliation if that presents itself later.

maybe super dave or majord can add input as they seem insightful.

You cannot predict what will happen but for the time being she is not with you, so you need to assume she is not going to be with you. Don't wait around for her while she explores you will just get burned!

i assume she is not coming back they rarley do and i have started nc a week ago and going back on it today after i talk to her i just wanted to know what the best thing i can say to her without sounding pathetic or putting myself on the back burner trust me i am moving forward and not dwelling on it to much but i just wanted to say something besides bye have good life just so she knows about possibly trying later in the future.

Ask yourself this question. What do you hope to gain from this communication? The fact is that whatever you say or do will likely come out wrong and yes you may well feel pathetic you may put yourself on the back burner who knows what the response will be. But whatever it is . I pretty much guarantee it won't be an answer you want to hear and it will just add to your hurt.

What give yourself further pain? Didn't you hurt enough already?

I am just thinking out for your feelings here because you sound like a really decent bloke and I don't want you to suffer any more pain.

i think considering that fact that it is ending on her terms she is fully aware that you care and that if she changes her mind you may still be there.

it would probably work in your favor NOT to explicitly state anything about being together in the future. any such suggestions would most likely do at least two make you look all too available 2 make it sound like you are clinging onto hopes. neither of these is attractive!

from a neutral perspective your best bet is to stay cool, be friendly but reserved and maintain your control and self respect at all times during the meeting! this would not only ensure you feel ok afterwards for handling it well but it would also leave her with a positive, confident impression of you.

she knows you care dont keep telling her!

I'm glad you are going on NC. Don't think about the future right now, concentrate on today only. When I truly let go of my ex, she came back, and probably we are going to give it a try again She wants to tell me about it this next friday at a concer it's kind of dramatic, so Im expecting good news.

Take it easy, you'll be fine