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This is me, venting.

I felt something awful all of a sudden.I have spent so much time reading and writing here at mozunk. I have read so many horrific relationship stories. I suddenly experienced a feeling of hopelesness, seems like heartache is all too common, Im afraid that modern people are not as willing to work to solve damaged relationships as 2 or 3 decades ago.

The easiest thing now is to throw it all down the rubbish chute and start again disposable relationships.

One of my biggest dreams in life is to get married, have a couple of baby girls and lead a peaceful, meaningful life with my wife and kids. I don't believe in divorce, I believe in commitment, communication and hard work to mantain a healthy and lasting relationship.

Anyway, I just hope that someday I'll find a girl who is right for me and hates drama as much as I do.

Hehehe sorry for sounding a little bit negative, but I needed to let it ou .I feel so much better now!

I feel as bad today as the day I was dumped, last December. After all this time, the intensity of pain that hit me today was pretty powerful. I know it will pass but just at this minute I'm thinking "what's the point!?".

Actually, there has been a decline in divorce rates in more recent years, according to what I have read recently. Though they are still recent.

Remember, those whom come here are coming usually as they ARE going through tough times. There are also plenty of people here (and out there) whom are NOT posting about breakups and all that all the time. No relationship is WITHOUT problems; but there are indeed many whom work together to resolve them.

I would say many years ago more people just suffered in silence as they could NOT talk about it openly. Or had less options. But I can say, that people 20 or 30 years ago had just as many issues and many of them did not work through them then either.

I don't know many whom "believe" in divorce, but in some cases it is the best solution sadly for all involved. It is in itself not bad, but it is a last resort. Sometimes the people whom married maybe should not have, sometimes they had the best intentions. I certainly do not "believe in it"; yet I believe in it over staying with someone abusive, or a cheat, or so on.

It all comes down to the two people involved, and their values, beliefs and commitment. Some negative experiences does not mean that you will never meet someone whom shares those with you.

I just felt this wave of sadness running thru my body. Im aware that people come here with that purpose but I just needed to vent.

Sorry, I didn't want to come across as being negative.I feel so much better now!

The pat there also want the technology we have today, and i truely believe it hurts us in the relatinship field. how many of us have . and when your sitting on there, someone pops up and tries to talk to you. it sreal easy to get caught up in this,especially if something sparks your intrest.

text messaging lik on another thread remember when youd go home check your answering machine to see if he or she called, or got mad at your mom cause she erased the message, and wrote on the fridge she/he called. you were mad cause you just wanted to hear their voice.
now a simple text, you are in their eye all day long nothing to look ofrward to, and not to mention texts do not have any kind of emotion, and could be read with the exact opposite meaning to which you ment them

and DANM interet dating what a waist, girls say they dont like bars cause they are on display what the hell is interet dating, its a freakin want add kinda lke AUTO TRADER search and oh, shes pretty, or hes cute lets test rid ethat one.

Hey man, sorry for posting so much! But, doesn't NC go against trying to work things out?

you cant work things out when the other person isnt receptive.
thats what NC is for.

I'm with you and it's refreshing to hear you say that after my ex who kept telling me he didn't really believe in marriage and that if he ever got married he wouldn't include "till death do us part" in his vows.

Unfortunately, I live in a city where arrogance and self-importance reign, so relationships get thrown aside all the time for selfish reasons.

I'm with you - when I meet someone I click with, I want to take it seriously. I can't wait to have kids - 2 girls and a boy (in that order ). I already have names picked out. HA!

Just wish men in this area weren't so self-absorbed. It may be time to move to the midwest....

you sound like my kind of girl! Interested in exchanging pics? haha just kidding!

No, because there's a difference between trying to work things out when you have a rush of emotions going thru your mind and body and with a cloudy vision, and trying to work things out while you are relaxed, strong and can see the situation clearly.

NC helps you accomplish the latter. NC is not a definitive withdrawal, just a strategic one, if you decide to. Of course some people go on it forever, but some people will give themselves another chance at getting back -as I did- when they feel they can handle it.