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Old 11-02-2007, 02:12 PM
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Default here ARE good guys out there

I'd always thought guys were emotionally shallow, but I'm realizing now that this macho bravado is just a cover for what lies underneath. I never appreciated until now how deeply sensitive men are, far more than women, it seems. We women can be scathing at times (I'm no exception here - I've had my moments!) and I always thought that because men don't outwardly show their hurt that they just didn't really feel it. It seems so obvious now but PMing with some of you on here and reading your posts makes me realize that men want to be loved unconditionally and need the emotional support of women to bring out their vulnerabilities. And, when push comes to shove, you guys will move mountains to be with the woman you love.

I'm going to keep this in mind moving forward so that I don't make some of the mistakes I feel now that I've made in previous relationships - and I hope to have a man who will pull out all these stops for me, like you all have for your exes, some day!

Actually makes me want to send an email to my ex since I left frustrated after the last meeting.

Anyway, thanks to all you guys on here for opening my eyes to this. You're truly deserving of a good woman's love and I hope you find it soon!

Makes me think, ", I'm 26 and I'm only NOW figuring this out?! What took me so long?"
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Old 11-02-2007, 02:20 PM
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WOW THIS MADE ME FEEL SO MUCH BETTER ABOUT MYSELF SOME HOW! Thank you
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Old 11-02-2007, 02:20 PM
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Makes me feel good..

I have read many of your posts You are a lovely lady Wish you nothing less
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Old 11-02-2007, 02:20 PM
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Love4life you're just living your life. You have given a perspective much like all the ladies on here how a woman views things. It helps us all. When it comes down to it we are all seeking the same things it's just a matter of how we all show it. Some of us do it better than others and some of us are still learnig! Men and women both will move mountains you just have to find the one that will do it for you. We will all do it for someone in our lives and maybe multiple people, but we will all some day find that somebody.
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Old 11-02-2007, 02:21 PM
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When it comes down to it we're all human regardless of sex. Men, when given a comfortable forum , can be incredibly articulate in explaining their feelings and emotions. It's unfortunate, but our modern society looks down upon men who show emotions. Not only is it unfortunate, but it's unhealthy having to hold everything in for the sake of "looking macho".

There are millions of incredible and caring guys out there. We'll all find someone who can appreciate us for who we are. But lets not forget about the amazing ladies here! You, too, will get a man who is lucky enough to be with you.
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Old 11-02-2007, 02:21 PM
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this site has give me hope that there are men who can feel just as deeply as women. It is so refreshing to see how many men feel comfortable sharing their feelings on this site. My ex would DIE before he would ever admit he was vulnerable or weak so I know he wasn't the one for me. Period. I'm sticking to that!
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Old 11-02-2007, 02:21 PM
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Men who misbehave are often the most noticed.
The guys I know are pretty fine folks and care about others, without fanfare.
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Old 11-02-2007, 02:22 PM
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to be honest I was starting to have doubts that a woman who would love me for who I am exists since it haven't been proven otherwise. but being in this forum for some times now I can say that they are all HERE .
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Old 11-02-2007, 02:23 PM
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I mean all of us on here are going through similarly tough times in life, so generally it is a good & positive vibe.

By the way, you're from the DC area? I'm in DC/No.VA myself and honestly, looking on the bright side, it's gotta be one of the best places in the world to be single and in your 20s as I am. I had always been with my ex basically since college, so it's really liberating to experience single life as a 20-something for the first time, in a great city like this, no less.
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