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Old 11-01-2007, 02:59 PM
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Do you mean that she has relationship pattern that she implements in each relationship, or does this mean that she misses things she used to do with me at places we used to spend time and therefore she now does exactly same things, but with new guy?

Is this the sign that she has jumped in to the relationship phase with new bf when she starts to miss our relationship?
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Old 11-01-2007, 02:59 PM
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No it's a very good point. I think it does depend on how much time you spend apart and how much growth there is. If I think back on the two women in my life where there was real love involved, I would say that if something happened where it did spark off again, I wouldn't (and I'm sure they wouldn't) begrudge them the split. It obviousy happened for a reason and if that reason no longer existed, then play on. I also would not begrudge them if they had found other people during the split. If it brought them some happiness and fun, then again I would be happy for them. Again I would suspect the same of them concerning me.
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Old 11-01-2007, 03:00 PM
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Could be both at the same time but I would say it's the former rather than the latter. What Dreamguy wrote sums what should be your response up though.
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When an ex goes for a guy that is totally different than the dumpee, me, in this example. Does that mean that they are trying to see what else is out there, to see if the dumpee was the type of person they really want to be with? My ex is seeing a guy that is a smoker, which she doesnt like, cocky and just looks like a total . I have heard this from many other people so its not just my opinion. Do you think she will realize eventually that this guy isn't her type or can a person change what they think is their type so quickly? I know there is no real answer, since only she knows whats goin through her head but anyone have any thoughts? I consider myself a nice guy, that is easy going, always wanted to do what she wanted and please her. Is that so bad? I am still confused on why she looked at me and decided she didn't want me anymore. Well thanks for any opinions.
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You say you "always" did what she wanted. That's not what a woman wants in a man (or what a man wants in a woman for that matter).

Granted, she wants a man who respects her, takes her needs and wants into consideration but, at the same time, comes up with his own decisions, has his own beliefs and sometimes says "No" when he truly disagrees on something.

I don't know all the details about your story but that aspect of your character must have certainly played a big part in making her want to seek another relationship.
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Old 11-01-2007, 03:03 PM
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Rough week here. She is coming this weekend, while I am out of town, to finally move out the rest of her stuff (6 months after she left).

Remind me again that if I just stick with LC strictly related to the necessary financial matters still between us that it will help her new relationship fall apart more quickly.

I need some hope here. This weekend is going to kill me. Somebody give me some hope, some wisdom, some insight. I'm not ready to give up and move on. Despite everything she has done, this woman still owns my heart. Somebody please say something to make me believe that hope is possible.
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If I was your girlfriend and I knew you were a really good guy, I would not let distance get in the way of our relationship and I would definitely try to have a long distance relationship if we couldn't be together, though I wouldn't know if it would work out that way, but if I loved him a lot and knew he was my soulmate, I would try my hardest to make our relationship work out and talk to him as much as possible.
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Guys, I have noticed something very interesting. My ex goes with her new bf (whom she started dating one month after we broke up) to exactly same places where we used to go. They do same things for fun that we used to do. They walk together the same routes as we used to…

It looks like that she has cloned our relationship to this new, which she has with new bf.

What is your opinion about that?
She wants what you had

Get her back, be the man she fell in love with.. Ask her out again. Dating her would probably get the spark back.
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