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I am just wondering if anyone here thinks, the EX will someday realise dumping us was a mistake and maybe the table will turn I had a friend tell me last night,

"He'll call you the moment you let go of him completely. They always come back some how when they realise you no longer think of them!."

Has anyone experienced the same ?

on a few occasions in the past, exes have contacted me almost to the second I moved on, whether that was 2 weeks or 6 months. I've also got exes in my life I've never seen again so.

The longer you hang on, whether it's to hope of them coming back or it's hope that "karma" will catch up to them, is wasted time for you. It really is.

Let it go. Sometimes they're with someone that's actually better for them than you were, sometimes they're not. Either way they're not with you and that's really the main thing.

"Either way they're not with you and that's really the main thing" .That's such a hard thing to digest, but its the truth. Nothing but the TRUTH !

i remember all throughout highschool i went out with this guy, i was completely mad about him. he dumped me for another girl and i still took him back. then he dumped me again for her.

i remember we went out to catch up about 6 months after we left school, he had a gf at the time, but decided to tell me he will dump his gf for me because hes so sure im the right person for him. ive never felt more satisfaction than telling him he would never have me!

now lets just hope this happens with this ex!

Sometimes they are with a person who's better suited for them and sometimes they end up with the wrong person and that is when they most likely get in touch with you. When someone else hurts them and the nice memories/history they had with you resurface from the past. When you are the last person they keep good warm memories about.
Still the truth is cruel: sometimes they are far better where they are and they never come back. In that case you are really wasting your time and your life when you could find someone else who can make you happy.

Surely it won't be the same experience/happiness you had with your ex but it could be equally beautiful. You will never know unless you get off your butt and go out there in search of the unknown. Your ex knows where and how to reach you. It's no use to stand still waiting for them for now !

As much as I loved a guy in college and as much as I was heart broken over our break up and didn't date for years (through myself into my carerr big payof and as much as it hurt that in a couple of years he married someone else Many years later he is with a person better suited for him that I could have been. I would have tried to conform and it may have worked for a time but I would not have been free to be me.

you are doing so well. You did your 30day NC with your head held high. You've had contact with your ex and it didn't go as you would have liked but you didn't plead or beg - you still have your dignity. I know how much it still hurts and how much you crave to go back because I'm at the same stage as you. Some days you are totally okay with it but others it's like day one all over again.

As much as I try to fight it, it will get better for both of us. Sometimes we just don't want it to. We loved what we had sooo much we are willing to suffer endlessly just to get it back. We consider this our sacrifice to our loved one. It's just unfortunate that right now they don't want it. They may never. And, for that is the reason we must move one.

AND I totally believe in Karma - my ex once a co-owner of a successful business is now working like a dog for meanial pay (just above minimum wage) managing a gas convience store. He has no life. I think that's payback!

Yes you are so correct. In fact those 30 days of NC were really good for me. I didn't think much about him at all. I was so busy with work and friends and doing other things. Now the pain has returned because I contacted him a little too early before I could have. I should have maintained NC. I got to know too many details about his "happy state" with his EX who he's got back to.

Plus I casually asked him if I was looking sexy that night and he joked. "No, you can be cool, but you'll never be sexy to me"that really bugged me out

Yes about three times the ex has been touch when I have "moved on". It hasnt led to anything but one thing I do know is that she is much worse off without me than with me. At least up until about 2 weeks ago.

So it does amuse me somewha that she hasnt exactly had the best time of it since we split.

I think deep down that she knows actually I was part of the solution not part of the problem. Depression tho can be (well in her case) a relationship killer.

his is what I mean regarding my ex. Spot on mate.

I feel your pain - I asked my ex to call me after we had texted a couple of times and he said 'he's not sure thats a door that should be opened again'.

We all do things we regret. We all make those mistakes.

You'll pick yourself up and go on!