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If you were dumped, do you now stay in more or do try to go out a lot more ?

I have always enjoyed being a homebody and tonight just feel like curling up with a movie and something tasty to eat.

But I have a ticket in the city to a Halloween party and kind of have an okay costume put together.

And I know I would have fun, that I'll laugh and flirt.

I though, I have zero interest right now in drinking and flirting with men. And I do have confidence and am lucky I get male attention pretty much anytime.

Am I being pathetic to just want to chill at home?
My friends are all NAGGING me to go into the city.

And besides it will be an expense. Take train in, taxi to venue and cab ride at 3 am from the city will total 80 bucks. Plus all the tips I need to give for the free bar.

Also I now know what my ex is going as at to his party .

I've always been the type to stay home while with my ex. But when with friends, it was always partying. That lifestyle never suited me. Thats why I loved having a gf who loved staying home with me and just being together. For the most part its all we ever did. Even now most of the time id rather "chill" home with a funny movie and something good to eat.

But sometimes it just gets too much and we need to go out with people. Unwind, flirt, and just have a blast.

I tended to go out to public places because it cheered me up to see people and animals. A day at the park or a museum is better that watching that TV gizmo.

you should go to the party. i am a homebody too, but it's a weekend, it's halloween (well, not really, but no one will really be partying on the 31st, except for 5th graders). So, go out tonight, at least for a few hours. your book will wait for you

My ex of 3 weeks certainly is going out heaps. Clubbing and pubs every weekend and other hobbies three nights a week. Maybe it' shis wayof dealing with dumping me. i dunno. Either that or he's forgotten me

I however have been doing sweet . I find it hard to go anywhere. Today I just stayed in bed all day and all evening. I go to the gym during the week and I do have a regular hobby where most of friends are, but I haven't been doing that a lot either. I just have no motivation.

I know I should do stuff just that everything do reminds me of him.

I'm a bit of both worlds. I'm the type who likes to just chill alot, especially with my lady, we were so good together. I go out no and then with my buddies or just go watch a movie with my brother.

if anything good has come of this, ive been able to see who my real friends are, as well get to spend and have some quality talks with my brothers.

Or get the boys together and watch a hockey game.

Well unless I sitting around watching Mythbusters, Dirty Jobs or the "comedy" 'White Chicks" (worst movie ever) I won't be reminded of him.
That's the good thing. I'm an only child so I always know how to entertain myself.


Oh and Belly dancing rocks!

it is such a great way to connect with new platonic friends and new exciting activities.
everything from sky diving to coin collecting.

There is a great book I read a few years ago called, "Snake Hips: Bellydancing and how I found true love." Basically, a woman got dumped (true story) by a man she was with for several years, and everything reminded her of him So, she found the one thing that didn't remind her of him, which was bellydancing, and she got really into it, made a ton of new friends, got slim, and found a new man, fell in love, and got married. all a true story.

I thought it was relevant to what you said.

No I know he must be doing that to NOT stay at home and dwell on you.
My last 2 exes did the same thing.
God forbid they were EVER sitting at home before 11pm.
Gym, bars or sporting events to keep busy.

I've been trying to get out as much as I can. Tonite there's a blow-out downtown West Palm here, "Moonfest", I think I'll have to go, it may even be alone but I don't care. It goes way late, great bands, wild costumes.

I have a killer costume too, "Officer Dangle" from Reno 911!

I was Steve Irwin last year , complete with big stuffed stingray on my chest, that stirred the pot!!

Everyone have fun!