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yesterday i posted for the first time, and I was called a WUSS. Which is ok, cause after reading that its true. I was over bearing giving flowers, and if she said she wanted it she got it. i remember her trying to communicate that to me to Nick eas up on things text messages, and so forth. Mow that i found this place, it is clear now as to my mistake, or bad habit witch probably did make me un attractive to her.

she still comes over, and i have noticed that if i tell her what we are going to do, or if i tell her dont make plans, i do get some response out of that.

so the big question is how do i communicate that to her, sjhe knows i love her, and want it to work and i think if there wasnt still a lil spark there the wouldnt come around.

do i tell her i figured out my flaws or just keep rockin as we are. i think i can tell her withouty saying lets get back together.

i did ask her last week if the things i do for her make me a weak person, and ofcourse she said no, but who would ever say yeah it does, and its Nick sickning

Simple, do not communicate for a while, then it will come to you naturally, when you are at a clearer state of mind, to convey those thoughts to her.

i think maybe you are forcing this sam if she knows, as you says she does, then only time and space from you will help her come around.

If you keep on with the questions to her, showing your self-doubt, you will be hurting your chances.

I feel someone cannot fear what they be losing in the great person you are until you ease off, and slowly take yourself out of the picture staying busy, not taking her every call not doing the romantic beach lunches after all, a woman will really miss those things they don't always get that with every out there it's not something to take for granted, but it does get taken for granted until it is taken away.

Perhaps letting her know one finale time, in a strong/firm way, that she knows you love her and want to work things out, but for your own protection you are going to stay away from her for awhile that you need to heal and move on.

I am a firm believer that one cannot miss what won't leave them be you know?

im not going to do the romantic lunch. though we are still going beach. she told me lastnite when she called she had a headache, she jsut sent a text saying she still didnt feel well if she could be here at 12 instead of 11. i just responded with, and have you takin anything for it.

im gooing to try and not bring anything up which when we are together my thoughts of that usually go away.

it hard to saty away when i ask ger to go out or do something she does isn't that not saying something?

and i bought a bunch of crap to play with frisbee, water guns, and football. she will do those things and screw it im gonna be assertive and try to get the intamacy going again

what have i got to loose, we arent together now

i keep fprgetting stuff oh, and im going TO TELL HER to take the match.com thing off, and if she says no, then i have my answer, and it will be time for SEE YA

to break it to you, but i don't see anything here. She's stringing you along as far as i can tell

its hard to say. when we first started dating it was like 3 weeks before we kissed, and 2 months before sex shes a different type of girl.

i just don't know

Don't read too much into it you're not dating her, you've already done that. So not all things apply here. I'm pretty sure she just want to be your friend.

Why do you think that telling your ex not to make plans for Sun is going to get a good reaction? She can do whatever she likes. Leave her alone for a while. She obviously enjoys your company, let her get in touch with you if she wants to meet up. And then tell her you're busy this week but you'd like to see her at the end of next week.

You are way too available for her. Focus on yourself, do stuff for yourself, spend time with friends, make some new friends, get out there and meet people. You're spending all your time trying to make plans with your ex and you're spending all your energy on working out how to get her to spend time with you.

She's your ex. As in ex girlfriend.So let her know what that means and how it feels.

Love is allowing people the choice to be in our lives or not. Let her make that choice without you in the picture all the time.

im goin to try and not contact her today or tommorow, unless she contacts me. the TEll her not to make plans for sunday after she gets off work and see how it goes

But you aren't showing her that you're more confident by meeting up with her all the time.

Even agreeing to give her foot rubs and massages isn't being more confident.

If you want to be with this woman, you need to step back ALOT and start living your life for you. You sound like you're planning all your spare time around when you'll meet her, what you'll tell her you're doing, how you'll spend time with her. Why not use all that time and energy to do some stuff for yourself?