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This is the email my ex girlfriend sent me the other day, some of the things she says are taken to the extreme. I didn't call her 'rose' and I always made time to do things with her. The truthful things relate to being comfortable and taking her granted, i did moan about somethings but we cant agree on everything can we!

First of all please don't think I'm ignoring you to be horrible, I'm doing this because the more we talk the harder things are. I do love you sam but not in the way i used to. I used to love you so much, i would have done anything for you. I don't know what happened when you were away that made me change my mind, i think it was the time on my own that made me realize that things aren't the same anymore.

I know you weren't a monster but i did realize that you took me for granted allot, we never went anywhere or did anything together and you would moan and kick up a stink if i did want to do anything, i can't be doing with it being a constant argument if i ever want to do anything and you have to admit that's how it was even if i just wanted to go to james, yet you went everywhere with. I don't want to start an argument with you but that is how i feel and when i tried to tell you this when we were together you didn't want to hear it. You say we could've talked about this but i tried so many times and after 5 years you get a bit tired of talking and never being heard or just being called rose

When i think back to our relationship i just think we were comfortable and i don't want to be comfortable, we've been together since school and i think we want different things out of life, we have grown apart.

I was saying i didn't deserve the presents because i hurt you by ending this and i never wanted to hurt you. I'm sorry things ended this way but i just want to leave this now if we keep in contact we will never move on and we need to. As much as i hate saying this please don't email me again and please don't respond to this email. I hope you are happy, i really do!



She says the time apart made her realize but for most of the time she was saying how much she loved me and being normal. it was only the last two weeks of me being away that she acted strange.

From this email i haven't got much chance of seeing her again have i? what are peoples opinions on this?

I'm sorry to say but that's a pretty definitive 'it's really over' letter.

Sound exactly like my situation. My ex cut me off for no reason. Just try your best to move on.

it's definitly over. no chance in getting her back. sorry man

I think that you should respect yourself foremost. She obviously wants to move on, so think of yourself first before her, ask yourself this question:

Do you really want to spend your time chasing someone that obviously doesn't want to be in a relationship with you?

I know its hard but time and heals all wounds. Goodluck!

I think this is your closure letter. Print it out, make it into a paper ship, put a tea candle on it, light it and let it sail away at your local canal/river/outlet. It's very therapeutic!

She sounds like she's ready to move on, it seems like you're both quite young, so realise that you have loads to look forward to! Stay strong!

If she made up her mind, then let her be. I would not say that you would never see her again, but for now things will not work in your favour. And if you insist on trying it will only make the situation worse. Let her stick by her choice and you go jercy. I hope you have not responded to that letter. Take care and good luck.

Sorry about your pain,this looks like a 'closure' letter,time to let her go and heal yourself.Easier said than done but it has to be done now.

Thanks for everyones advice!

She just changed so quickly thats why i'm finding it hard to deal with. I haven't responded to this email although the temptation is killing me! I'm pretty sure if i hadn't gone traveling we'd still be together and that thought is hard to shift out of my head.

She may have changed while you were gone because she had time to contemplate life. It's not because you left, it would have happened eventually. So don't blame yourself. We women hold things in until they just "pop". So wheter you were there or not she would have "popped" soon enough. We are bad about bottleing up our feelings until we just can't contain them. In the process we hurt others unintentionally. sorry for your pain.