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The Sex Mistake

"After the flame has burnt low and the sparks are simmering", why should a woman worry or bother "how to keep a guy interested"? Does the woman need the man and the man the woman " after the flame has burnt low and the sparks are simmering"? Time for new Love (Eros). The man and the woman can remain very good friends (Platonic). But when Eros has left the "connection", it is time for both to move on. And very often they do.

It's all about connectionthen you must determine a man's/woman's relationship goal. It either clicks or it doesn't sometimes one finds themselves attracted to another that is least expected, but quite intense. I don't think that this 'sex formula' is very accurate. Did pull out one quote that is applicable.
"Seduce my mind and you can have my body, find my soul and I am yours forever."srk

A man can be lured or enticed by sex, true story. When it comes to a man wanting a more substantial connection with a woman, she has to score well in other qualities. Some girls, if they should fail to keep the interest of a particular man, choose not to address these qualties, but rather blame the sex, and the male mind's connection to sex.

To me this is akin to hunter who is a terrible shot, and misses a duck. As he watches it fly away he throws his duckcall whistle thingy in the water and curses it.

then he goes on letsshootducks.com and tells everyone that they shouldn't use a duck call, and that they should try to shoot ducks WITHOUT one of the greatest duck lurers in the duck lurerer/shooter guy's arsenal and thusly be in touch with his inner duck shooting goddess.

"Seduce my mind and you can have my body, find my soul and I am yours forever."

Forever? Well that counds scary. Unless one is into collecting "slaves".

Unlesss the forever is a matter of speech! How long is forever in such case? Until Eros moves on. I am not into the soul stuff. I prefer logic (mind) and heart (emotion). I only like soul music! Not into "bondage", only "connections" based on the Heart and the Mind and REAL friendship (which lasts "forever"). My soul is and shall remain free! Many gave their lives over the centuries for FREEDOM. Must then be worth a lot.

I can thus agree in Mind and Body and Heart connections between me and a woman. My soul and her soul should remain FREE.

if a guy starts with sex he won’t want to get to know the gal. If a guy enjoys sex with a gal of course he is going to want to know her better. All things being equal he is going to want to know her and keep her. Again, has anyone ever heard or read about a guy not wanting to know a gal because he had sex with her too early?

Maybe women do get attached too easily. Let’s assume that’s correct and that’s why a woman won’t have sex with a guy. What message is that sending the guy? To me, it’s saying the woman does not trust the guy. It’s saying the woman is deliberately going to prevent becoming attached to the guy. It that the message a woman wants to send to a guy she wants to be with?

I meet someone on line and we have been talking for a couple of weeks..He lives seven states away.I have alot of mixed feelings for him and have become very attached to his e-mails..I ask questions and he doesn't answer.Long distance relationships are almost impossible.I can tell you that we have been very flirty on line and I would love to be intimate with him but I also think I want his heart too.If Im intimate with him first then I'll probably never hear from him again and if I don't flirt with him on line I feel that he'll stop e-mailing me.

A reader recently wrote me about her experiences dating online. A man had started flirting with her, and she was pleased and flattered. She'd written him back and was surprised when he returned her email. Their exchanges were fun and flirty; he told her that he liked high heels and naughty lingerie and asked her what she liked in a man.

Where was their online flirtation going? Can anyone guess?

1. Relationship?
2. Friendship?
3. Sex?

The one thing i've found in my experience is men like the chase - for instance in the comment about the man going home with the woman who's gonna put out for him instead of the woman with the descent personality - he may go home with her but there's a high chance that he'll call the one with the good personality (am I wrong guys)?

The one thing i've found in my experience is men like the chase - for instance in the comment about the man going home with the woman who's gonna put out for him instead of the woman with the descent personality - he may go home with her but there's a high chance that he'll call the one with the good personality (am I wrong guys)?

I never advocate “immediately” as in an hour after meeting. My point was that having sex does not prevent a man from wanting to get to know the lady better. If a man enjoys sex with a woman he will want to get to know her better. He will want to have things work out. He will want her. It’s as simple as that. As for being intuitive and discerning either the gal is not interested in the guy or she doesn’t trust him. What other reason is there unless one holds the mistaken belief a guy won’t want a lady if she “puts out” too soon.

“Puts out.” Just the expression shows ones distorted view towards sex. Sex is the physical way of showing a person how one feels about them. Does one “put out” a hug? Rather than being considered something one gives to another it should be looked at as a way of showing ones affection towards another.