I'm 13 and worried about frenching Hi,
I have a girlfriend, and she is my first and I really like her. She is a lot more experienced than I am in pretty much everything that has to do with relationships. She has started complaining that I'm too shy and not as physical as she'd like me too be, which I agree with, but she is my first and I really have no clue what to do and get pretty nervous and worried over things.
Anyways, last night we were at the movies, I had my arm around her and kissing her normally and just doing stuff I knew I was comfortable with. But then at the end of the movie I gained enough guts to french her. I knew she wanted too, but this was my first french kiss so I was a bit tense. After about 20 seconds, and we pulled apart briefly, all she said was "You can't kiss for beans," and started laughing a bit. Not wanting to start an argument I agreed figuring it was most likely true. We didn't do much after that, we just left and kisses normally a bit more. I was kind of embarassed, seing as she told a couple of my friends, but what could I do, it was the first time I was ever doing it. Her and I are still on good terms at the moment, but I fear that if I don't pick up my act in this field, she might just get rid of me, and I like her a lot.
I have looked through all these french kissing tips, but they all seem to say the same things, that don't really give a lot of help. Because I thought I was doing it right last night and doing almost everything the tips say. So I just wanted some real advice from a real person here, because I know if I am told the right things in enough detail, I can really make my girlfriend happy next time we meet. So please, please get back to me with an answer ASAP, and thanks for the help. |