help- i like this guy, but our kisses don't mesh I really like this guy I recently started dating. He's everything that i would like to find. he's successful, intelligent, we have similar backgrounds and we are both very attracted to each other.
I am not new to kissing. i have a particular way of kissing- not that i'm an expert or anything, but my style is very different than this guy's. I've had some pretty bad kisses before, but some men you can teach. so i gave this guy the benefit of the doubt and kissed him a few times more. I have never had a kiss as bad as this one. i mean it was the worse kiss ever. I'm not saying that it's his or my fault, we just don't mesh. I've tried several times to lead him the way i want to kiss, by trying to take control, but he just doesn't get it. the kiss basically feels like a suction cup covering my mouth and then he kisses me like a woodpecker in but the chemical kiss is more like two people dancing with two left feet. sho such an aggressive manner. i can feel the sexual chemistry b/w us, uld i give up on the guy or is there a nice way to explain and teach him the way i want to be kissed? I am 25 yrs old and he is 28 yrs old. i don't want to hurt him and i've tried to tell him in so many words- like "i feel uncomfortable kissing you b/c we have different styles"...but he just doesn't get it. i asked him if he thought our kiss was natural and he thinks we kiss fine. do i tell him or just move on?
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