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Old 10-05-2007, 01:14 AM
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Default Odd or not?

This is the thread that tells the background of this issue:

Now this morning I wake up to a text message from him saying "have a great day sweete". It's as though he never got my text messages from yesterday, which WERE in response to a text message he sent me yesterday morning.

Should I ask him about those text messages? Or just leave it alone?

Just a bit puzzled.

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Old 10-05-2007, 01:16 AM
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Yeah Texting sucks. SInce he likes this mode of comms that is fine, but when it comes to meeting up i suggest just calling to confirm "in person". That will clear up all confusion.
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Old 10-05-2007, 01:16 AM
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maybe he didnt get your text? It happens sometimes.
I would ask him, just to be on the safe side.
Just say someting like, "I thought we were gonna hang out last night" or something along those lines.
If he didnt get your text, he might be thinking you didnt respond to him (i.e. ignored him or not interested).
I dont see the harm in asking.
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Old 10-05-2007, 01:17 AM
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I'm thinking he might have thought that way.

I'll text him back later.

Thing is I am not really that into him, but what happened yesterday feels kind of like a "rejection" of me, even though he was the one who texted me first, asking to hang out.

Rejection stings and messes with my mind a bit.

And I don't like him that much either.
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Old 10-05-2007, 01:17 AM
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Are you sure have a thick enough skin to be dating right now given your reaction to someone you don't like very much? I agree with Jadedstar that texting is a poor form of communication especially with someone you don't know well
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Old 10-05-2007, 01:17 AM
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If youre not even into him, then why bother, Ren?

If you remotely like him, then ask him about the plans & texts and all that.
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Old 10-05-2007, 01:18 AM
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Batya, I'm not like devastated over this, but it kinda stings a bit, esp since I thought he was into me and I was aloof enough and not chasing him.

I'm puzzled about guys

Personally, I HATE texting, but it seems this is his mode of communication most of the time, so I do it. He has told me I can call him but if he doesn't call me, I don't call him.

Just doing it by the rules.

Luvursmile, he is growing on me. And it is nice to have a guy to hang out with and do stuff with. Helps me get my mind off some issues that sadden me.

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Old 10-05-2007, 01:19 AM
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Fair enough...just clarify to him that you did text him and never heard back from him. But for God's sake, woman--call him, dont text him! That way youre sure he knows where you stood that night. If only, for the purposes of not having any ill will.
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Old 10-05-2007, 01:19 AM
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Call him and ask?
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