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| So I've posted a few things here over the past couple of weeks regarding this situation. Anyway, last night, this girl who I've been flirting with texted me out of blue (she got my number from someone else). We talked for quite a while in text messages, and today she came and sat by me and was flirting just as much as ever. She was tapping my leg to get my attention, also- which she's never done before. I had planned to just ask her out today, I told myself "I'm gonna do it, no question about it!" But as expected, I didn't. I'm extremely disappointed in myself. Anyways, we have an inside sort of "joke" where we compete in math test scores, and we always give each other a bad time when there's a test. I was thinking of calling her and and asking what she got, and then after that, saying "Well, actually I called you because I want to ask if you'd like to get together and hang out Friday night. I was thinking some miniature golf or something. If you'd like, you can bring a friend, Bill (our mutual friend) is already willing to go." I feel like I should call right now because this has been looming for like two weeks, we've been flirting big time and it just seems like it shouldn't wait another minute, it SHOULD have happened at school today. Or- should I wait until tomorrow to do it in person? |
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| Umm just call her!! What is the big deal! If she is a friend and you make it a friendly group date then it will be fun for the both of you and less akward! CALL HER __________________ I like to duct tape jumbo bags of potato chips to the bottoms on my shoes and stomp around like I am Godzilla. |
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| don't know you, until now I never read any of your posts, I don't know your situation, but I can say this: I am extremely disappointed in you. __________________ > > > "You can do as I say, or say as I do, but don't say as I do and then don't not do it." |
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| Yeah, and if you take her for miniature golf, let her win. But don't be obvious about losing or it will be worse than if you kicked her butt. And if she tries to move the ball away from the side, or doesn't add a stroke when she hits the ball off the course, let it go. __________________ > > > "You can do as I say, or say as I do, but don't say as I do and then don't not do it." |
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| hmm, you're suggesting a guy use deception to attract a female? Personally if I was taking a girl minigolfing the score would be the last thing on my mind. Whats important is the fun you have, not whether you won or lost. Its really just a method to go have fun and get to know the other person, right? So he should be concentrating on making her laugh and getting to know her. Find out if she's someone he wants to be around a lot and all that. If he makes the date about the game, then they were just there to play a game. The game should simply be the background for the da "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." -- Mark Twain |
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| He's going out with other girls, several times a week. I'll tell you where you are...you are nonexclusive. Since you aren't sure you want a commitment, you really can't even have the "exclusivity talk". Get out there and have some fun. He is. |
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| Well, you did tell him you weren't interested in being committed to him, so technically he's not doing anything wrong, but if he asks you if you are seeing other people, feel free to tell him that you may as you are not exclusive. However, I wonder if you want a bit more from this than you are letting on, since it does upset you that he sees other women. __________________ Marriage has less beauty but more safety than the single life. It is full of sorrows and full of joys. It lies under more burdens but is supported by all the strength of love, and those burdens are delightful. -16th century bishop |
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