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I thought I was done goodbye and moving on from this board.
I felt light and happy and was totally removed from thinking about my exNarcissistic Personality Disordered BF of 6 years whom I left 10 months ago.
I wrote him a farewell letter 3 weeks ago but apparently he never got it until recently.
I had told him I forgave him and that I had more pain growing up in my family and that if he knew how much my Mother abused me growing up he would be kinder and that my secrets are my own and that I'm strong and I wish him well but don't want to be friends anymore.
I was feeling the best I have in years.
Then tonight I get home to find that my exBF drove 100 miles down to my house just to slip a crazy note under my door.

I have to move now. Far away.
It will take me a few months to have the money to do so.

Should I go to the Police or just lay low and move soon ?
His note scanned via ocr software :


LIAR


I WANT THOSE 10 YEARS OF MY LIFE BACK, YOU ****ING LIAR.


and here i was like an idiot, thinking all those years you were making up for all your INITIAL LIES... you were just covering them with MORE LIES.


MAKE ALL THE EXCUSES YOU WANT, THERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR YOU BEING A LIAR AND TRAITOR TO YOUR VERY OWN SAVIORS AND BENEFACTORS.


DANTE PLACES PEOPLE LIKE YOU IN THE FINAL CIRCLE OF HELL, RIGHT NEXT TO *JUDAS* AND THE DEVIL HIMSELF. WORSE THAN EVER OTHER CRIME OR SIN A HUMAN BEING CAN EVER COMMIT.


no wonder you became so completely unrecognizable to me, so quickly.


youve lie so much in your life, you don't even know who you are anymore.


how DARE YOU STEAL all t hose years of my life, not only do i not even have a friendship to show for it, but the whole thing was a ****ing LIE.


WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE.... that you can TAKE TIME AWAY FROM OTHERS, because of something you WANTED FOR YOURSELF. wHERE would my life be, if you hadnt interfered in it... for NOTHING... LYING and DELUDING me the entire time. this is one of the MOST SELFISH ACTS ive ever heard of a human being ever doing to another, for no reason.


you are truly a VERY BAD PERSON. and you are a BORN LIAR, always WERE, always WILL BE.


you must truly be godless now, to have done the things you have, and think no one is keeping score.

AND IF I *EVER* MEET YOUR SO-CALLED *HUSBAND*, ILL BE SURE TO TELL HIM WHAT A LIAR YOU ARE AND THAT YOU ARE INTENTIONALLY KEEPING THINGS FROM THE POOR SAP.

you havent earned the right to have a loving husband, OR a successful marriage.. and giving you children would be the cruelest life sentence for those poor innocent lives that are sure to become more ****ed up than you are. You have NO BUSINESS being a WIFE or MOTHER


do yourself a favor and do not marry or procreate. your line needs to end with you. to even have the DESIRE to TRICK OTHERS so YOU can have what YOU WANT, with no conscience of the cruel, negative effects on THEM, is called SOCIOPATHY

i dont think you need to move. keep the letter and if he continues to try and contact you or do ANYthing, then call the police and file a report of harassment/threats.
he is just trying to get attention and make you feel guilty for ending the friendship, i would just ignore it and put it in a box away.
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HOLY f*cking shiet...IM so sorry you have to deal with someone like that!...letter....hmmm I think you should take a trip to the police station and show them that letter and explain the situation..so they know whats up and have it on file...He lives pretty far, but he did drive down so im sorry to say this but you might have to lay low for a bits. I mean he never says anything like IM COMING TO GET YOU...but thats still really scary...hopefully hes calmed DOWN a lot and has moved on.....I hate having say that someone is gonna affect how you live, but just as a precaution...since its gonna take some time for you. So yes yes please go to the police and explain, make sure things are properly locked, and maybe tell your close friends to hang out with you or contact them from time to time....I might be going overboard, please do whatever you think is best for your situation. Good luck and stay safe.
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I'd say he needs help... its your wish what you want to do but this is my exp at mozunk

You should take that letter to the police and let them know what's going on. It may not lead to anything but if he ever tries anything in the future, it's better to have a record with the cops so they're informed and can react better.

Wow. He's pissed off. and when i dint come to now please tell me

guess one reason he can still scare me is he was abusive at the end....

When we were dating, several years into the relationship he started getting physical. It took that long but then he would do some small, apologize and it would escalate every 2 months. From throwing remote to shoving to pushing me to the floor to grabbing me by the neck to slapping me repeatedly on my head when i couldnt stay and wrap his parents xmas presents because my pets were starving to slapping me in the face and blocking me from leaving his apartment.
Thats why I finally left him .............. and whenever i would tell him to recognise his abuse he would say either I MADE him mad and do that to me OR to never ever bring it up again or he would be furious.

Ya think? Well I've heard of worse. Like the contents of everything a guy had being thrown out into the street and locked out. I've heard of people getting thrown out naked. I've heard people send a reply to whomever it was breaking up with them with a real nasty letter or worse yet, a radio broadcast.

I do wonder if there is a double standard though. Lets say that letter was delivered by a girl to a guy. Would you be saying that she needs help or bravo! Good for her. You go girl!

Well in that case, you might want to get with a lawyer and seek a restraining order.

ok, I think Im the opposite end of the spectrum here. The only thing I see that he did that was "odd" was driving a great distance and dropping it off. You mention there has been a time differnece in the time it was sent and the time you feel he recieved it. Maybe he waited till he was in the area to drop it off personally.

He technically issues no threats of bodily harm to you, he mentions just previous events and how he feels you treated him.

The only way you can go to the police (you can still check and see if the statuates are the same in all the area's, they are in the majority of areas's.) you have to feel as if you, yourself, or someone in the immediate area is in imminent fear of death or bodily harm.

There are 2 sides to every story, Im not being critical, and if you do feel threatened then definiatly contact an officer. Personally I think I would leave it alone and see what happens. Keep your guard up....
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