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Old 02-22-2008, 11:39 AM
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friends at mozunk.com please tell me what conversation we can do with our date while dating for the first time?
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Old 02-22-2008, 11:41 AM
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Well compliment on youe date wearing.this will make her feel good and joyful.Should you be able to ask where he or she bought it, you will learn something about his or her clothing style and preferences
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Old 02-22-2008, 11:42 AM
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Ask about her daily routine and living.If your date works,ask about his work.
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Old 02-22-2008, 11:44 AM
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Ask her original belonging and where she lives or had lived.You can even play name games with her.Go for first date in joyful and enjoying mood.
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Old 02-22-2008, 11:45 AM
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ask about her intrests,her choices.Ask which is her favourite city.Always make eye contact with her and feel confident.Talk slowly and gently.
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Old 02-22-2008, 11:47 AM
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Go wearing normal clothes.Do not go wearing something which do not matches your personality and style.Dont go drunk.
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Old 12-16-2008, 01:03 PM
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first date conversation starters


Imagine...you are on your first date...obviously you are seeing this person personally for the first time. After saying "Hello! How are you? ..Nice to meet you." And there is a complete silence between you both. Isn't it? Its not new for you but this situation is quite common. There is nothing worse when meeting someone for the first time then that awkward silence after greeting each other. On first dates conversation can be uncomfortably slow at times. You don't know much about the person, you have no history with them and above all the nervousness and tension due to such situation brings things downright awkward.

Come out of it and be a great conversation starter. Now you will be wondering what is this conversation starter??? A great conversation starter is a question or statement that elicits more than a yes, no, or any other one-word response. It also causes the potential conversation partner to think, at least a little bit. But first before we go ahead in suggesting you the perfect conversation starters, we would like to bring in front couple of facts and things we all need to know and understand about socializing on dates.

The most important thing we need to know is that people like to talk about themselves! Most of us would rather talk about our life than listen to someone else talk about theirs. Is it not true? It's just the human nature and there is nothing wrong in it. With that in mind try to focus your conversation on the other person and listen to them patiently.

Keep all the conversation positive and never bring up negative things like death. Also its better to avoid controversial subjects like religion, politics,etc until you get to know the person better.

Try desperately to keep away from all conversations like, "So, what do you do?" or, "Where are you from?" or "How long have you been here and when was the last time you've been to Nigeria or abroad?" The later question seems to be a popular, designed way to find out the immigration status of a particular person once deemed to be foreign born. These you may know later on, on the second or third date as that may make you seem dull, unoriginal or shallow.

Here are some good conversation starters that focus the conversation on the other person:

"You look really nice, where did you get that?" - This will give the person a chance to think and talk about it and tell you the details plus s/he would be happy at the compliment.

"Have you seen any movie recently? How did you like it?"- They will definitely like to talk about the movie s/he liked and can talk in detail.

"What kind of music do you like?" - This is an opportunity for her/him to share the interest which might be interested for you too.

"What interesting things did you do this weekend (week)?" - Another opportunity to talk about the fun things being done and people usually love sharing the fun part with everybody.

"What do you normally do for fun?" - Obviously getting a chance to talk about hobby and one is passionate talking about it.

"Have you ever....?"- Ask about something that you are knowledgeable about or enjoy doing. This is a good way to find out if you have common ground. If they do have that interest in common with you then you can talk about it a little and then move onto something else.

"Do you like sports?" - Both men and women are passionate about sports and all enthusiasts enjoy talking about them. May be you both enjoy the same sport and then why not buy tickets and go to a game for your next date?

"Have you ever been to....?" - Ask them if they have ever been to a local hotspot that you enjoy. Maybe it's a club, restaurant, or amusement park. If s/he hasn't been there, then this is another great way to get a second date.

All of these conversation starters and many more are simple ways of keeping the conversation flowing and best means to find out more about each other and whether you will be compatible. Be sure to listen to your date carefully and with concentration so that you can ask follow-up questions while learning new things. Plus it will have a good impression on your date, you being attentive and curious to know about the other.
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Old 07-23-2009, 05:54 AM
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I know some other dating sites also where we can date any person. But for knowing each other it will take time and to chat with your date you have to be prepared yourself.Take some tips from any dating sites.
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Old 08-09-2009, 07:24 AM
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Hi

Try to find out her likes and dislikes, her family and also which type of guy she like while dating for the first time?

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Old 04-29-2011, 05:32 AM
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Thanks for sharing the different views about the conversation of the first date.I learn quite good things by review this thread.This help me during my first date.
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