When we see how much effort we spend struggling with what is, the tendency is to struggle with that-to try to change that.So efforts together with struggling makes us perfect to encounter any kind of troubling situations.We should not think that "this girl is very beautiful,she is not my cup of tea".We must make an effort to approach to her and say her,"mam i want to talk with you for while".That is called an effort.If she agrees then you have made a good effort otherwise if she denies then dont loose hope may be she would like to talk with you next time. |