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Old 10-30-2007, 02:13 AM
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Yes, I think some guys would say that they want to see you again, when they don't. It's a sad fact, but sometimes... people lie! Just because the date went badly, doesn't mean he won't ask you out again, but I agree, the signs aren't very positive. My take on this is that he probably isn't the one for you anyway.
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Old 10-30-2007, 02:15 AM
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Well he replied to me within a decent amount of time. BUT he made fun of my name AGAIN (he thinks it's a really funny one but I'm all like haha, get over it already). He said that in spite of everything he had a good time and asked how the rest of my weekend was. Did not mention meeting up again though. What do you think he'll think if I don't reply to him until we see each other at the party this weekend? That I'm blowing him off or playing it cool?
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Old 10-30-2007, 02:18 AM
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I had a really awkward first date with my longest-term boyfriend (5 yrs). He told me later that, at the time he was concerned and sad that it might not work out between us, that maybe we just wouldn't mesh, even though we were physically attracted to each other.
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Old 10-30-2007, 02:18 AM
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k so I get out a a terrible relationship, well I thought it was a good one until I started NC and thought about the events and actions of the other person during that time. I started to remember all the terrible things that he put me through. So now I started the dating scene....well after about 6 months or so of having a terrible commitment phobe as a boyfriend. I meet a good amount of people and all they want to do it sleep with me!!! I'm not even that type of girl! so I stop talking to them.
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Old 10-30-2007, 02:19 AM
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I met a few men (did a lot of dating) who wanted just sex but luckily that was apparent from early on so I walked away. The best way to meet someone who is interested in getting to know you is by letting him get to know you at a reasonable pace over time - go out on dates, spend time together in public - once a week, maybe twice - and wait a few months before having sex.
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Old 10-30-2007, 02:20 AM
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Actually what seems to be the issue is that you cannot wrap your head around the idea of having something casual with a guy, therefore you are going to look negatively at all men who just want to be casual with you and have no desire to have a relationship with you. I like how you put the blame on men being this way when a significant amount of women just want to have sex with you and dont even attempt to go the relationship route then, it would be beneficial to ask what are you doing to encourage that kind of guy from hitting on you.
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Old 10-30-2007, 02:22 AM
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That's a good question...I'm not sure, I have never thought of it that way before. I do know this can't be all me or I'm the reason that this happen
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Old 10-30-2007, 02:23 AM
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Neither are fair statements, both may be commonly observable. It's likely common to find a guy whom wants to have casual sex. It's also likely to be easy to find examples of girls being flakey drama magnets whom stir up issues everywhere they go. Doesn't make it right to go around saying these things.
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Old 10-30-2007, 02:24 AM
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This is hilarious. Men are mostly pigs, as any man who as ever called a waitress 'dollface' would know. We treat women as slabs of meat, only some of us are very very good at hiding it. Get a man into a strip club and you will see his true colors, its public humiliation for these women and men just lap it up.
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Old 10-30-2007, 02:25 AM
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No, this is definitely an radical feminist view. Men are no more pigs than women are. Calling a girl a "dollface" makes a guy a pig? What about "Babe", or "Honey", or saying "Hey sexy!" to your girl? I think your point of view is very unrealistic, sexist, and bigoted. I am not mad at you, and I say this not to insult you, but to offer a defense to mankind whom you've unfairly targeted.
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