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women on this site are kidding themselves

most of the women on this site are looking for the nonexistant perfect man WHY?

Nobody's perfect, you are correct.

But you have to remember.I believe the ratio here is 5 men to 1 woman so the women can pick and choose what they want.

If they want to go contact to contact, finding somebody better and better everytime, until they eventually hit somebody who is 100% compatable with them.They can.

I think we might be working with different definitions of "perfect" here. I realize that I'll never find a perfect man - I wouldn't want to because that would be boring - but I would like to find the perfect man for me. In my opinion, baggage builds character, as long as you are willing to unpack it and examine its contents rather than stuff it in the closet and forget about it.

I used to know this girl. She was probably the pickiest woman I have ever seen when it came to choosing men. She was always saying that her man had to be tall, handsome, rich, kind, sweet, loving, special, detail-oriented etc.She would not date anyone who was not all these things and more. She sounded so unrealistic and shallow.
We used tease her, and said that she would die by herself because there was no such "perfect" man in the world.

A while later, we found her with a short, ugly, balding and fat guy whom she had to support because he did not work. The pickiest woman in the world ended up with the worst possible kind of guy, not to mention that he treated her like crap.

In general, when we look for Mr/Ms perfect, we end up with the last thing in the world we want to be with...
Just sharing some personal experience. That is all.

just curious what do you men want in a woman?baggage?their exes?neagtive?their skeltons? doubt that very much so why would we want those lol

like many sayexpectations are to high on this site an how do we choose from tha

I think its more the men who are looking for the perfect women .. If you dont look like a runway model they dont want to get to know you. It doesnt matter that they aere 50 lbs overweight short and bald they still want it all. I think most women are looking for an honest guy who wont cheat on them and who is somewhat attractive and successful

I think the reason that he hasn't met the right women or probally any women for that matter is because your are whinning.

No one likes a whiner, well maybe another whiner but those relationships don't last long.

I read you profile and saw that you have lost over 250lbs and you are planning on losing more. Good for you. That took a lot of hard work and commitment on your part.

If I were you I would put a positive spin on this aspect of your life. Tell women that you are not perfect and you never will be but you are working on improving yourself. You'll be surprised at the results you will get.

To get the fish to bite you need the right bait.

This is how it works. Barbies date Kens, good looking people date good looking people, ugly people date ugly people, average people date average people. Unless you are from India, and your mother chooses who you marry. Where you are from, baggage, and etc has nothing to do with getting responses or hooking up. I except people for who they are and I have friends from all walks of life, but the majority of the people that try to hook up with you are not what you are looking for because they are trying to go beyond what they look like and represent. I held this back for a long time but it is time for the truth. If everyone sticks to what they represent, they will get more responses. Just be yourself and do not exceed expectations. If you are rich well then that is another story.

i think you have made the most valid point
what i seek in a man cud be a million miles from what any other lady wants
my dad used to fish and the point is if u lure something you dont want u throw it back and let it live by the way .

But u cud meet ur perfect match anywhere Just enjoy life and try to have fun without hurting anyone

BIGBOY are you in a wheelchair part time, full time?

I looked at your profile, saw the chair, looks like braces on your legs is that an issue you have not fully addressed in your profile? You make no mention of it.

You've lost a lot of weight, and for that you should be congratulated.

We all have baggage since we've all been around the block a few times.