The more serious you take shit, the more likely it will fail Exactly as the post says. If you are one of those people who gets committed really fast (that is FINE) but if you talk about it, and bring it up with the other person alot, you will most likely scare them away. To be someone who can devote to one person is good, but most people just want fun, and like me, simply like to take it by the day, let things go where they will, with the main factor being fun. Fun being a mental satisfaction, that is not me saying fun in the manner that you're fucking like rabbits. If you are with someone, and you're bored, bored to death, and they start talking about how they like you and can really seeing this go somewhere, and it's only been 2 weeks, the words you say will be "yeah i like you too" what you're thinking is "it's time to do the big check on my options."
Too many people are screaming out in their actions, or even words about seeking long term this and that. How about being human and seeking happiness and LEAVE it at that word. if you're happiness derives from a relationship you're in a lot of trouble anyway because you're putting way too much dependance on a person. Just a thought. |