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Ok so I'm not sure if it's that there is something wrong with me or I'm just mean/flippant. But last week I had an audition booked, and a date that were to take place today and tomorrow. The date was with a guy whom I talked on the phone with once for 5 hours. The reason I cancelled? I just had this feeling like I really didn't want to meet him anymore...ok and also I looked at his pictures and took into consideration some things like where he lives, the fact that he smokes and for me that is a deal breaker, and he has no goals/ambitions etc...and it's like I started piling all these things up and then finally I just e-mailed him making up an excuse saying I had met another guy and hit it off with him this weekend and so I told him I hope he found a girl and to take care! I just don't want him calling me or anything I don't even want to hang out with him as friends. What is wrong with me?

did this to one other guy before too, I lead him on, in a way because he was sweet and nice but very un-atractive and so I eventually stopped e-mailing him, and he took a long time to take the hint. I was too much of a coward to tell him I wasn't interested b/c then I'd have to admit I was shallow. I don't even want to answer my phone today in case the guy I cancelled with calls me. It's like I know I should squash down any hope and not lead anyone on as soon as I know...but I keep thinking this time may be different etc... I hate that I do this....and wonder if I don't have some time of social anxiety or something but at the same time it's always worked out when I trust my intuition and when it's meant to I feel, and sometimes I just get into situations I know won't work out etc...I dont know if this makes any sense really.

There is nothing wrong with changing your mind but the guy is going to take these as mixed signals and mixed signals=Stalker!

As you get older and get a stronger identity and more experience you'll handle it better.

Trust your intuition. In the future instead of making definite plans, say "well why don't you call me that day just to make sure." If they call and you no longer feel the same way then you can break it off and use whatever excuse you like.