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Me and my ex had dinner tonite. However she is the one who dumped me 2 years ago and had made no contact for a year until she showed up at my job. She is trying to get a job at my place. Anyway so far have been having limited contact.
However last week I told her, I thought jumping on me like I am her enemy and stating I am asking too many questions was uncalled for and I told her I felt being used for her to get a job at my place. I also told her that when someone gets close she pushes them away. Right now she has issues and working on them. She told her girlfriend that we had a mild argument etc and I stated how is that, I was only expressing myself? I don;t see how she can see that. Now she makes a point in texting me and stating HOw is life and keeps throwing the subject in I don;t want you to feel used?? However she told me that her girlfriend now that she is seeing that she is being used, because she has issues with her son right now and not paying attention to my ex.
Tonight at dinner first she was responding to text from a friend while I am at dinner. However she did apologize but I still feel that is rude? Should I mention it to her or not?? She will probably think that it will be an argument?
Then last week, she mentioned she is working on her issues and then will consider having a relationship with me because she does not want to drag me thru her issues? Wait a minute consider it? WOW, that threw me for a loop. This is the one who dumped me 2 years ago could not tell me straight answers etc.
True my emotions are still high with her but after tonight and that comment last week, I really don;t know. I really want to be cold to her but again not sure, since her girlfriend already is doing it, feel I should not be doing it.
Would like opinions on this on to go about it? There is at times I really want to tell her look, I cannot be her friend until she gets her issues straight then call me but then again, I really don;t want to be the bad guy. However she knows she did hurt me the last time and she admitted to me that she attempted to come to my job 2-3 times before she finally had the guts to do it because I went no contact

It sounds like you are still emotionally involved, based on your post I can't tell if you want reconcilliation or to just be friends. Either way since she is affecting you I would have less contact and be more aloof. You owe her nothing.

No not at all. Steer clear of her my friend, it seems as though she is using you to get that job. Assuming that you want a relationship with her again is a little cocky! I would ask her to contact you again once she sorts out her issues & then & only then will you consider any form of relationship or friendship with her.