both people should dress nicely for the date I think both people should dress nicely for the date itself, I think that an overly’ fancy' event or location puts too much pressure on both people. They may be investing a lot of time and money in a situation where they may not get along that well with the other person. Better to meet at a more easy going location for something than have a stressful four course meal or balloon ride. Save the bombastic events for after you've met them and want to show them a special time |