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Body Language Dating decisions are made mostly on the basis of body language and voice tone.

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Old 10-06-2007, 02:54 PM
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Default he best first date or first meets are casual and cheap and no expectations.

well my dear friends ,

dont you think Guys are not spending a lot of money to take a lady out to a fancy restaurant because they want good conversation and get to know you. This doesn't apply to women that pay for their own meal and drinks.
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Old 10-06-2007, 02:57 PM
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I don't know what happened with the case, but there was a guy who sued a woman he took out on a first date to a fancy restaurant. She got busy for a couple of weeks and she would not return his calls. He took that to mean that she was using him to get a free meal and he wanted her to pay half. I am sure he won't win, but he sure made a lot of trouble for her.
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Old 10-06-2007, 02:57 PM
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well
Not only do I believe most women would fine a "fancy date" uncomfortable for first encounter, I think it can backfire in a big way. As one poster said, too many romantic overtures too early on can look desperate and needy (a big turn off for the ladies), and spending a lot of money or going overboard can also make you look like you're just trying too hard to impress her in shallow way.
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Old 10-06-2007, 02:58 PM
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ok in that case
I agree that everyone is different, but I would even so far to say that your friend is for the most part, just plain wrong in thinking this works " better" for him (and posts here seem to back me up on this). My guess is if he did more casual affairs, it would work just as well, if not better for 90% of the women out there.
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Old 10-06-2007, 02:59 PM
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Dude... NEVER spend more than about $25 on a first meeting.

. Pick up the cost of the first date, just make sure you don't go anywhere expensive.
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Old 10-06-2007, 03:00 PM
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If you think things are going well after 2-3 dates and you are pretty confident you are going to be able to have sex with her, it's probably ok to spend a bit more on a bit fancier date, but it's even better if she pays. Better yet, take her out for something fancy only AFTER you've had sex with her. It's still best if she helps to pay.
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Old 10-06-2007, 03:00 PM
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You have to remember that she will make up her mind in the first 30 seconds of meeting you whether or not she feels 'chemistry' or ' attraction' which translates to 'I'd bang him' or more likely ' I'll NEVER bang him'.
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