Attraction cannot be defined. There is no scientific formula. Attraction comprises of many qualities. Some of them are perceived only by your subconscious mind. Pay attention to the personality and develop an irresistible personality to win the dating game. Even if you do not look a stunner, if you have a good personality you will always win the game.

Yes, you can trust your own judgment again! However, you will need to be a bit more careful. Then you must have more confidence in and respect for yourself and as a result set some boundaries.

Hey. You aren't a weirdo. Glad thinking about sex made you at least crack a smile. I know where you're coming from with doctors... I've never seen doctors about feeling miserable or anything like that, but I know people who have and some of them have felt disillusioned like you do. Doctors are there to treat the symptoms, not deal with the problem. I remember, I had some kind of skin problem, the doctor prescribed something for it, but I later realised what caused the skin problem in the first place, so I could fix it myself. Much better than just taking medication I didn't actually need. It sounds like you know what you don't need, which is a start.

I agree with the above posters. If a person isn't willing to admit they have a problem then they're going to get angry and defensive. I dealt with this in my mother for 2 years after my father died.