I can say that we all wish to look good because we feel that is an asset. We have inherited this idea of beauty from our ancestors. Everything must be in proportion was the motto of the earlier human society. This has stunted growth of many promising careers. Those who do not look stunning feel inferior. But that should not happen because not everybody gives importance to looks. Some of us do that, but not all of us. Anyway are you keen to befriend a person who ignores intelligence and is concerned only about looks? I do not think you would do that.

For most of us, it is the personality that attracts. The best looking person who looks awkward while walking will not attract any positive attention. Personality has many ingredients. The way you walk, the style in which you sit. Your talking style matters quite a lot. If somebody has a loud voice, no romance can happen. Use of tone is very important. It is true with choice of words. Those who picture with words are powerful creators. They can attract attention of any person. Look at your personality before deciding that you are not good dating material and don't deserve the best.

I've been wearing toenail polish the past two years. I only ever take it off to put more on. About a year ago, I noticed that my nails were looking very dry and damaged so I stopped using a metal cuticle pusher. Although they are much better than they were, I still have damage on three nails. I'm pretty sure it's not fungus but I could be wrong. Anyway, I really like doing my nails with french tips but I can't because the damage will show through. Does anyone know of a good basecoat that will keep nailpolish from further damaging my nails while the damage grows out? BTW, not wearing nailpolish is not an option. I despise feet and the only way I can deal with my own is if they look nice.

Normally, I'm a very logical, fact-oriented person; I try to respond to situations objectively, I try to see when my emotions overpower logic and try to fix it, I can control myself from lashing out, I can rationalize fears, insecurities and negative thoughts because I believe we have the power in us to alter our mindset, attitudes and ultimately control our own happiness.