Before going on a date, scrub yourself thoroughly, use fresheners to make you feel good, use anti-perspirants if required and get checked with a dentist about mouth odor. Wear clothes that reflect your good taste and enhance your personality. Consult an expert if required.

I don't want to. I want to wallow in self pity. What is up with that? How can I change it? Because I'm trying really hard to point out the positive, the benefits, the rewards, the accomplished goals, everything. But ultimately, I feel stagnant.