Men should do the calling, at least in the beginning. If you're interested, you'd better call. Remember, you are supposed to do the pursuing. Women who call men regularly are finding that they almost never get the lasting relationships they want. When men don't call, there is a reason. And it's usually that he's interested in someone else or seeing so many people that he doesn't deserve to have a quality woman anyway. So, guys, if you are interested, don't refrain from calling, thinking she'll be jealous. What will most likely happen is that she'll become disinterested. High-caliber women are busy and resourceful. If you don't call her, someone else will!

Whether or not this is fair, it's important to let her know that you are thinking of her no matter how busy you are.

Normally, I'm a very logical, fact-oriented person; I try to respond to situations objectively, I try to see when my emotions overpower logic and try to fix it, I can control myself from lashing out, I can rationalize fears, insecurities and negative thoughts because I believe we have the power in us to alter our mindset, attitudes and ultimately control our own happiness.