Be friendly To get the man you want, you are going to have to speak up. When you see someone interesting, move near him gracefully and start a conversation. Ask a question and be prepared to listen to his answer. If you decide you like him, stay and keep talking. Some people tell me they can’t do this because they were rejected in the past and they are afraid they will be hurt again. If this is true for you, begin practicing your conversational skills on people at work, in stores, at the gas station, and everywhere you go. Don’t wait until you are out at a social event where you could potentially meet someone before you attempt talking to strangers. If you are serious about wanting to date, you have to push yourself out of your comfort zone and make an effort to reach out to people. No one can do it for you. |